Lust and curiosity

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when does curiosity become sinful, or lustful.?

can adultery be committed by going to an 18+ site without the intent of lust, or is lust already committed by the action of entering.
 
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when does curiosity become sinful, or lustful.?

can adultery be committed by going to an 18+ site without the intent of lust, or is lust already committed by the action of entering.
Catechism of the Catholic Church
2351 Lust is disordered desire for or inordinate enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Sexual pleasure is morally disordered when sought for itself, isolated from its procreative and unitive purposes.
The action is voluntary so it can be sin.
The near and voluntary occasion of sin should be avoided.
The near occasion of sin is that through which we always fall.

Baltimore Catechism No. 3
Q. 770. What do you mean by a firm purpose of sinning no more?
A. By a firm purpose of sinning no more I mean a fixed resolve not only to avoid all mortal sin, but also its near occasions.

Q. 771. What do you mean by the near occasions of sin?
A. By the near occasions of sin I mean all the persons, places and things that may easily lead us into sin.

Q. 772. Why are we bound to avoid occasions of sin?
A. We are bound to avoid occasions of sin because Our Lord has said: “He who loves the danger will perish in it”; and as we are bound to avoid the loss of our souls, so we are bound to avoid the danger of their loss. The occasion is the cause of sin, and you cannot take away the evil without removing its cause.

Q. 773. Is a person who is determined to avoid the sin, but who is unwilling to give up its near occasion when it is possible to do so, rightly disposed for confession?
A. A person who is determined to avoid the sin, but who is unwilling to give up its near occasion when it is possible to do so, is not rightly disposed for confession, and he will not be absolved if he makes known to the priest the true state of his conscience.

Q. 774. How many kinds of occasions of sin are there?
A. There are four kinds of occasions of sin:
1. Near occasions, through which we always fall;
2. Remote occasions, through which we sometimes fall;
3. Voluntary occasions or those we can avoid; and
4. Involuntary occasions or those we cannot avoid. A person who lives in a near and voluntary occasion of sin need not expect forgiveness while he continues in that state.

Q. 775. What persons, places and things are usually occasions of sin?
A.
1. The persons who are occasions of sin are all those in whose company we sin, whether they be bad of themselves or bad only while in our company, in which case we also become occasions of sin for them;
2. The places are usually liquor saloons, low theaters, indecent dances, entertainments, amusements, exhibitions, and all immoral resorts of any kind, whether we sin in them or not;
3. The things are all bad books, indecent pictures, songs, jokes and the like, even when they are tolerated by public opinion and found in public places.
 
What does one expect to find on the 18+ site?

Knitting tutorials? 🧶

Cocktail recipes? 🍸

Or illicit videos and pictures?
 
In broad strokes:

If you’re trying to find sexual gratification, that’s lust.

If you’re hoping to find information on how the body works, your intent is fine, however…
An 18+ Internet website is not the same as getting your information from an anatomy and physiology textbook, or a book about the psychology and ethics of sexual expression, etc

Also, if you’re not 18, you have the issue of lying.
 
Curiosity is also a vice. It’s not surprising that it oftentimes leads into lust.
 
I had 1 professor who always used to say: “Curiosity is a vice, studiosity is a virtue”. From my own experience also, curiosity is often dangerous.

Peace & Blessings to all
 
it was reddit and someone ask me to see some artwork, I didn’t think it would be that bad, yet prepared to divert my eyes. it was that bad, i did not see anything but a few words that were dangerous to the soul so I clicked off.
 
Oh ok. I understand more clearly.

The other person should have described the art before showing you.

I follow a number of art threads, one I stopped following because it included suggestive modern art.

Art is tricky sometimes.
 
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