I tend to view this as strongly connected to how it interacts with justice and charity. For example, saying “she wore that yellow ribbon that Sally made for her” could be told to spare the feelings of a young child who gave someone a ribbon, or it could be told during a murder trial, causing the culprit to be misidentified and making a gross miscarriage of justice. In my example you see a very trivial fact go from venial to mortal.