Marital abandonment

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Looking for some help…friend married 25 yrs. returns home and finds husband and furnishings gone…now what? :confused:
 
Oh my gosh, what a thing to walk into!

She obviously needs support, preferably from family and Church. Without knowing the specific circumstances its hard to know what to do next. Is she able to communicate with him? Is he open to counciling? These and other questions are going to have to be addressed. In the meantime, since I can’t do anything else, I’ll pray for her and the family.
 
Husband and furnishings gone??? First, a police report, then a lawyer.

JimG
 
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Husband and furnishings gone??? First, a police report, then a lawyer.

JimG
Agreed.
 
My husbands father walked away after 25 years of marriage when my husband was 3 years old but he didn’t take anything more than a suit case with clothes and left everything else.
I don’t know what to think of this situation, as someone else stated, can’t really say anymore without more info.
 
Huh? I don’t know. What kind of guy would be attached to furniture? Something’s fishy - call the police. It may not be a marital problem at all.

I mean did he take off with his favorite, stinky, ol’ recliner?

I could see making off with the boat, tackle, guns, tractor, golf clubs and such. But furniture?

The only way I would dissappear along with all the home furnishings would be if someone kidnapped me, and they were stupid enough to think my furniture valuable.
 
Something very similar happened to my brother.

He came home from a two-week Army Reserve duty rotation and found his wife had moved out, completely stripping their apartment and taking everything they had bought to furnish it. They had been married five years and he didn’t see it coming, but she had been planning to do this for six months.

Big, messy court situation ensues…

Maybe someone within the parish can recommend a lawyer? And she needs to file a police report if he took anything that she owned…it’ll help in the long run. Counseling and prayer and support, that’s about all you can do.
 
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