I am from the United States. I am Catholic and have never been married in my 58 years.
Rowar, I would have to disagree with you and agree with sw85. I have Major Depressive Disorder and have suffered it with to some degree all my life. For most of my adult life, I have been on medication. I thank God and my lucky stars that I didn’t marry and run the chance that an opportunistic former spouse would use my illness as grounds for an annulment when he knew of the condition at the time of the vows.
I probably understand the meaning of Marriage per the Catholic church than a lot (maybe most) Catholics who marry. But, I would be considered incapable of making such a commitment and the marriage would be annulled. Perhaps, that’s why I didn’t marry. An annulment under those circumstances would kill me. Literally.
I really think the Catholic Church in the US needs to acknowledge annulment for what it is. DIVORCE! You get one chance and that’s it. That’s all I would have given myself.