Marriage and Mental Illness

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What are the chances that a married Catholic with medically treated/controlled Major Depressive Disorder be granted an Annulment without a second thought as to the facts and individuals involved.

Really, how can a mentally ill person consent to marriage?
 
Major depression can be controlled with medication. Interesting question, I await the responses
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I could be wrong, but wouldn’t they have to determine that it existed at the time of the marriage? If not until after, then it would fall into the “sickness and health”, I would think.
 
I could be wrong, but wouldn’t they have to determine that it existed at the time of the marriage? If not until after, then it would fall into the “sickness and health”, I would think.
I this example, the illness had been diagnosed prior to marriage and it was being effectively treated to the time of the proposed annulment. Also, the illness was not concealed from the future spouse prior to marriage.
 
What are the chances that a married Catholic with medically treated/controlled Major Depressive Disorder be granted an Annulment without a second thought as to the facts and individuals involved.

Really, how can a mentally ill person consent to marriage?
I don’t see how Major Depressive Disorder would prevent a person from consenting to marriage.
 
I don’t see how Major Depressive Disorder would prevent a person from consenting to marriage.
It’s not uncommon for some people to think a person with a mental illness to be “crazy” and not in control of their faculties. I’m not sure that members of The Tribunal would be any different. It’s amazing how ignorant people in such positions can be. Not that The Tribunal is ignorant.
 
What are the chances that a married Catholic with medically treated/controlled Major Depressive Disorder be granted an Annulment without a second thought as to the facts and individuals involved.

Really, how can a mentally ill person consent to marriage?
Your question is too vague. There are many factors that influence a granting of an annulment but to make an assumption that someone with mental illness which includes such a wide range of things from adjustment reactions all the way to full fledge psychosis can’t make decisions is way to broad. Why do you ask this?
 
What are the chances that a married Catholic with medically treated/controlled Major Depressive Disorder be granted an Annulment without a second thought as to the facts and individuals involved.

Really, how can a mentally ill person consent to marriage?
Where are you from? If the answer is “the United States,” very good. Nearly all requested annulments are granted here.

Whether or not it ought to be granted is an altogether different question.
 
I am from the United States. I am Catholic and have never been married in my 58 years.

Rowar, I would have to disagree with you and agree with sw85. I have Major Depressive Disorder and have suffered it with to some degree all my life. For most of my adult life, I have been on medication. I thank God and my lucky stars that I didn’t marry and run the chance that an opportunistic former spouse would use my illness as grounds for an annulment when he knew of the condition at the time of the vows.

I probably understand the meaning of Marriage per the Catholic church than a lot (maybe most) Catholics who marry. But, I would be considered incapable of making such a commitment and the marriage would be annulled. Perhaps, that’s why I didn’t marry. An annulment under those circumstances would kill me. Literally.

I really think the Catholic Church in the US needs to acknowledge annulment for what it is. DIVORCE! You get one chance and that’s it. That’s all I would have given myself.
 
I am from the United States. I am Catholic and have never been married in my 58 years.

Rowar, I would have to disagree with you and agree with sw85. I have Major Depressive Disorder and have suffered it with to some degree all my life. For most of my adult life, I have been on medication. I thank God and my lucky stars that I didn’t marry and run the chance that an opportunistic former spouse would use my illness as grounds for an annulment when he knew of the condition at the time of the vows.

I probably understand the meaning of Marriage per the Catholic church than a lot (maybe most) Catholics who marry. But, I would be considered incapable of making such a commitment and the marriage would be annulled. Perhaps, that’s why I didn’t marry. An annulment under those circumstances would kill me. Literally.

I really think the Catholic Church in the US needs to acknowledge annulment for what it is. DIVORCE! You get one chance and that’s it. That’s all I would have given myself.
I am sorry about your long term struggle with depression. I will pray for strength and healing for you. God Bless. I think it would be better to discuss your concern with a cannon lawyer that is familiar with or works with a marriage annulments. I am not sure where you got the idea that MDD would cause an automatic annulment for you so again, it would be better to ask a real expert in this area.
 
Fortunately, annulment has never been an issue for me. Society, in general, have the idea that anyone with a mental illness is incompetent. I’m very responsible in every way in my life and health. I’m well-educated and know that I am responsible for my actions. I don’t tell anyone, ever, about my illness. I can’t take the risk. I struggle through everyday of my life only for the chance to be with my loved ones again.

I love the Catholic Church and believe it is the only way to Heaven. I hurts me deeply that God could teach that such ignorance is justified. Medical professionals are the most judgmental.
 
I don’t think that mental illness itself makes an annulment inevitable or automatic but depending on the nature of the illness, it can inhibit a persons capacity to give truly free consent at the time of marriage. That would have to be examined and determined on a case to case basis.

What I mean by the freedom to consent being inhibited is that with disorders such as severe depression and anxiety, a persons world can already be small and ‘confined’ making free choices in living, inhibited. If down the track, a marriage fails to grow in intimacy and the giving of the self to each other fully, it can be a reflection of a persons motives at the time of marriage. The promise has to reflect a truly free giving of the self to the other in love, not with fear or an over dependency on the other person to ‘save’ them or care for them. But that would have to be examined on a case to case basis.

Annulments, when properly granted, strangely enough can throw light on the true nature and beauty of a marriage between and man and woman. I know that Pope St John Paul II was concerned that annulments were being granted too frequently and coming over as ‘Catholic divorce’ as you say.
 
What are the chances that a married Catholic with medically treated/controlled Major Depressive Disorder be granted an Annulment without a second thought as to the facts and individuals involved.
No.

A decree of nullity comes after a tribunal examination in the courts of first and second instance. Nullity cases must follow canon law.

What you describe above is not possible. The marriage has a presumption of validity, and grounds would have to be put forth, evidence and testimony given, etc.
Really, how can a mentally ill person consent to marriage?
Some can, some cannot. It depends on the type of illness, what treatment the person is receiving, and other factors. That is part of the premarital investigation and determination of freedom to marry.
 
Rowar, I would have to disagree with you and agree with sw85. I have Major Depressive Disorder and have suffered it with to some degree all my life. For most of my adult life, I have been on medication. I thank God and my lucky stars that I didn’t marry and run the chance that an opportunistic former spouse would use my illness as grounds for an annulment when he knew of the condition at the time of the vows.
Well, in fairness, an opportunistic spouse could easily have contrived other grounds for seeking an annulment and still likely have had it granted. Most are granted simply on the say-so of the spouses (and often just one spouse) that they married with a defect of intention.
 
I have major depressive disorder w/psychotic features.

I’m not violent or out of control…

But I am 18, and I’m glad to read all of these opinions on marriage. I was sexually abused as a kid and don’t think I could make the sex part work in a marriage anyway. Hopefully I can become a Franciscan friar if they let me…
 
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