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Retro_Ace
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What I am trying to say is I feel like God’s idea of marriage is this all which are equally important
1st: You need to bond with them enough to know you are willing to take that to next level (like you said you have to ask yourself ‘are these feelings real’ and ‘does he/she have the same sense of right and wrong’ what have you)
2nd: He/she need to bring the best out of you, make you a better person, help you do the right thing and be the shoulder to cry on and vice versa
3rd: Even if you argue you can make up for it, showing that your love for each other endures
4th: Your love begets love to those around you
5th: You make each happy and you love each other for who you are, vices and virtues
it seems to me that people make it ‘chose one’, like some sort of false dilemma and dichotomy
I mean with all that put together I don’t see it as ‘not romance’ sure it may not be hyped up all the time but it doesn’t mean it should be purely platonic, thats what friends and family are for, its the same but its own thing…do get what I’m saying?
1st: You need to bond with them enough to know you are willing to take that to next level (like you said you have to ask yourself ‘are these feelings real’ and ‘does he/she have the same sense of right and wrong’ what have you)
2nd: He/she need to bring the best out of you, make you a better person, help you do the right thing and be the shoulder to cry on and vice versa
3rd: Even if you argue you can make up for it, showing that your love for each other endures
4th: Your love begets love to those around you
5th: You make each happy and you love each other for who you are, vices and virtues
it seems to me that people make it ‘chose one’, like some sort of false dilemma and dichotomy
I mean with all that put together I don’t see it as ‘not romance’ sure it may not be hyped up all the time but it doesn’t mean it should be purely platonic, thats what friends and family are for, its the same but its own thing…do get what I’m saying?
