Married Life and Religious Way

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Me and my wife making a vow to live perpetually in continence is an option that I wouldn’t mind considering being in. However, I do like the idea of being a deacon and knight more.
 
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You cannot speak for your wife. Even if you do marry, it is her choice, not yours.
 
I’m sure that when I’m married if I decide this my wife will also want to do the same because I want to marry a woman that feels the same desires as me. I know it’s possible.
 
Oh, as opposed to all the other Catholic women out there? You really need to choose your words more carefully.
 
Well, he’s going to have to choose his wife even more carefully…he’s got some tough non-negotiables, sounds like.
 
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God is going to choose my wife for me. I can make mistakes, but he can’t. He knows the woman that is right for me. Also I’m open to discuss life choices with my wife. If you remember I said very clearly if I have to choose between my vocation of marriage or to live my life in a religious way then I choose marriage.
 
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I don’t understand what you are even on about. How is me desiring a Godly woman come off as bad to you? The same with me wanting a women who desires what I desire?
 
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There are lots of Catholic women that would not agree to what you want in a marriage. That does not make them any less Godly.
 
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I think the concern is that it may imply that women who want something different are not Godly. It also sounds like you are making all the decisions, without mutuality of discernment with your spouse or potential spouse.
 
I never meant that when I said I want a godly women. I just simply said I want a godly woman and stated what I want. I even mentioned that I’m willingly to talks things out with my future wife on what we both want. If you are here to argue you picked the wrong place. I highly suggest you go somewhere else for an argument.
 
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I never implied that women who don’t want what I want are not godly. I simply stated I want a godly woman. In addition to saying I hope I get a women that desires what I desire. Me saying that I desire a wife with the same desires as me is not wrong, in fact it’s very normal. I accept the fact that my future wife may not want everything I want and that is fine, I’m just expressing what I hope to find in my future spouse, which is her being godly and her have common desires as me.
 
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TheMarriedKnight said:
If you are here to argue you picked the wrong place. I highly suggest you go somewhere else for an argument.
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I have been a member since 2009. I see you joined last month. Maybe you don’t know how the forum works. People start a thread because they are looking for answers, advice or opinions. Sometimes, they like what they hear, sometimes they don’t. Just because someone doesn’t agree with you doesn’t mean they are arguing with you.

And for the record, you don’t get to tell people to “go elsewhere,” it’s a public forum. That’s just rude.
 
The amount of time you been on here doesn’t mean anything. I know how forms works, but I did notice you jumped to conclusions way to fast and tried to make my words sound like I want to make to all the choices when I was simple expressing what I desire, how I hope my wife support me and advice on how I can fulfill that. I know if someone doesn’t agree with me it doesn’t necessarily mean they are here to argue, but it seems you clearly were and that is not the reason why I posted this form. I never told you to go somewhere else, I said if you are here to start arguments for no reason I highly recommend you go so somewhere else. There is a difference between me telling you to go away and to telling you not to argue here things that don’t need to be argued. I came here looking for advice about my desire for marriage and living my life in a religious way not to have an a pointless argument about something that I already know.
 
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