Thanks again for the replies.
I am not too familiar with this, I only knew one person years ago at our old parish that prayed in tongues verbally during mass. I didn’t know what to think of it-just that this was they way she prayed. I never went to a healing mass or any other charismatic service-
Does one have to ask for this gift? How does it usually come upon a person? I am thinking the first few times it occurs the recipient of the gift is caught off guard and does not have time to prepare with holy water and prayer.
I don’t like to draw attention to myself in spiritual matters that are not formal so I am confused. Of course any gift from God is welcome.
It can be asked for
Or
It can just happen spontaneously
Or
It can grow over time
Or
Like any gift you can ask God to help you learn the gift,
Many of the saints first developed smaller gifts before the gifts grew, God says in the Bible; “You have showed yourself loyal in little matters, I entrust you mow with much.”
Linda schubert has a book on
amazon.com on tongues, available for ebook download,
Fr Robert De Grandis has a book on tongues you can buy for just 7dollars if you go to
spiritdaily.com
He also has cds on tongues on that website,
“Spiritual Warfare” by Stella Davis is on
amazon.com available for ebook download, she has tongues and uses it in the healing and deliverance ministry, so you can read examples of all the ways tongues can be used.
It can be used to pray for anything. Or in thanks. Mainly tongues opens you to the Holy Spirit because you let the Holy Spirit pray in you
Practice praying aloud whatever sounds and words come to you, you can also sing tongues to a hymn you like, just change the words to tongues,
Be humble also, don’t pray it in front of others as boasting, which I know you won’t do
As far as I’ve read, everyone is meant to have tongues, it is one of the most common charisms,
And it opens you to the other gifts of the Holy Spirit and the other charisms if it is God’s will to grant you more.