MERGED: Confession before RCIA/Confession before Baptism

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I am deeply troubled after having read through this thread. My husband came into the Church last year at Easter. He had not been Baptized however; our Priest made him take his confession before the Easter Vigil where he was Baptized and Confirmed. At the time I questioned it and was told this is just how it has to be done. Now I am concerned that his confession was not valid and he has been receiving communion for a year without having actually made a valid confession. Any feedback on this would be helpful.
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Baptism takes away all sin. The confession before hand shouldn’t have occurred, but that wasn’t his fault. He was doing as instructed. Regardless of the first confession before baptism, ALL of his sins were forgiven during his baptism. No need to worry!
 
If it were valid then yes, you would be required to give a general confession prior to confirmation. This general confession would consist of all of the mortal sins which you committed from the time of your Baptism.
Exactly. I was Baptized in the United Methodist Church. When I entered into full communion with the Catholic Church, and received by Confirmation, it was necessary that I confess all sins I had committed (as best as I could possibly remember) from my Baptism up until that point before receiving the other Sacraments.

My RCIA classmates who were un-Baptized did not need to do this (although, if I recall, they were welcomed by our Priest to have a kind of ‘unofficial’ first confession if they desired one…this was not necessary, but some people expressed a desire to confess their sins even though, through Baptism, they were going to be washed away anyway).

God bless you!
 
I have a friend who is currently in RCIA at a different parish than mine, and yesterday she told me that she was told in RCIA to go to Confession before she is baptized. I found this rather strange and unusual because I thought you could only go to confession after being baptized into the Church, and I also find it strange to have them do this before being baptized since baptism cleanses us of all sin. Anyway, my question is if this is standard practice or not?
 
It shouldn’t. Reconciliation cannot be received before Baptism because Baptism is the gateway to all the other sacraments. Suggest that she make sure the teacher wasn’t only talking to the Confirmation candidates.
 
I have a friend who is currently in RCIA at a different parish than mine, and yesterday she told me that she was told in RCIA to go to Confession before she is baptized. I found this rather strange and unusual because I thought you could only go to confession after being baptized into the Church, and I also find it strange to have them do this before being baptized since baptism cleanses us of all sin. Anyway, my question is if this is standard practice or not?
Please tell her that she has been misinformed. Unless she has been baptized in another church, she needs to receive a baptism before she can receive the sacrament of Reconciliation.

Anyone who has been baptized with the Trinitarian formula has been given their proper baptism. (In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.)

Baptism is the gateway to the other Sacraments.
 
That would be correct if she were being baptized conditionally. Is there some question as to whether she has been validly baptized in the past?
 
That would be correct if she were being baptized conditionally. Is there some question as to whether she has been validly baptized in the past?
I can see the direction in which you’re going. If the candidate is to receive conditional baptism wouldn’t the candidate make a conditional confession after receiving baptism rather than before it?
 
I can see the direction in which you’re going. If the candidate is to receive conditional baptism wouldn’t the candidate make a conditional confession after receiving baptism rather than before it?
There’s a standard procedure; we just need an RCIA director or someone familiar with the procedure to confirm it for us.
 
I know she wasn’t validly baptized because she received a “Jesus Name” baptism in a Oneness Pentecostal church. Hope this information helps.
 
Sarah- First off WELCOME!! I’m so excited for you, I’m going through RCIA right now and it is such a beautiful process! About Confession though, if something is truly bothering you talk with your priest. On a few occasions (retreats etc) I was able to sit down with a priest and talk a things out since I wasn’t able to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Often I would find by talking with the priest that there was something underneath that was causing the issue. By discovering and dealing with that I was able to move on and grow spiritually. The road is not easy and we can’t always find the path, thus we need a guide to point us in the right direction.
If you ever want to talk send me a message.

Andrew- Your explanation of Baptism and specifically Baptism of Desire is so beautiful! You certainly have a way with words. Thank you for sharing that and the Church is very blessed to have a “regular Catholic” like you!
 
Sarah- First off WELCOME!! I’m so excited for you, I’m going through RCIA right now and it is such a beautiful process! About Confession though, if something is truly bothering you talk with your priest. On a few occasions (retreats etc) I was able to sit down with a priest and talk a things out since I wasn’t able to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Often I would find by talking with the priest that there was something underneath that was causing the issue. By discovering and dealing with that I was able to move on and grow spiritually. The road is not easy and we can’t always find the path, thus we need a guide to point us in the right direction.
If you ever want to talk send me a message.
Thank you Theresa! I appreciate your words of welcome and your sound advice. God bless you abundantly!

Sarah
 
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