No, I just don’t see why I could not receive a blessing because I was in RCIA, learning and yearning to complete it and join the Catholic church. I wasn’t hurt. Before the RCIA director said to go up for a blessing (while we were practicing for the rite of acceptance), I quietly stayed kneeling in my pew.
I was asking why you were saying that those were self-excommunicated shouldn’t go up for a blessing. I was asking about young children (I don’t consider self-excommunicated) and those who are in the active, publicly declared process of joining the church (RCIA members, who I do not consider doing anything to self-excommunicate) should be denied from going forward for a blessing. Just asking. You were saying people who were not in the state required to receive communion must be self-excommunicated, I was simply stating that I felt you were wrong to make that statement. Some people who cannot receive communion, cannot receive it for other reasons than self-communication.
But my point is, where would you get the idea that joining the communion line was also for non-communicants to receive blessings?
Ok, so you do it at the suggestion of your RCIA director. That makes a difference, and it’s a clue. It looks like it doesn’t spring from popular piety at all, but from a distorted concept of what we are doing in the broader context of the liturgy. Now the connection with the likes of Fushek is coming into focus.
At a high school graduation ceremony the eleventh-graders don’t process together with the seniors to get a congratulatory word from the headmaster in between seniors getting their diplomas. By your director’s reasoning, why should the juniors
not receive an individual greeting, inasmuch as they are yearning and learning to complete high school?
As far as I can tell, the simple reason why the self-excommunicated shouldn’t go up for a blessing is that the communion line is for communion - the same for non-Catholics, indeed all non-communicants. It’s as though the practice of going up for a blessing was meant to be a consolatory compensation or a concession, as if it’s somehow not fair that they should be condemned to languish in the pews like second-class citizens. Could the practice ultimately be springing from a symbolic sociopolitical egalitarianism being imposed on the liturgy?
Children younger than the age of reason who have incurred
latae sententiae penalties preventing them from receiving communion, such as through irregular marriages, procured abortions,
ferendae excommunications, or who are under interdict, and so on, are exceedingly rare, so I’m leaving them aside for now. But it only stands to reason that they shouldn’t be left behind in the pew: they may make noise or otherwise create a disturbance, and we can’t have that

Still, it would seem that the communion line is for communion, regardless of how “nice” it would be for them to get a special individual blessing of their very own. And a babe in arms is an excellent argument for communion on the tongue.