I would strongly recommend against joining any branch of the military. I have wasted the last 11 years of my life serving under inept, immoral leaders and fighting in “wars” with tenuous moral standing to say the least. I was very naive when I joined and since then the more I’ve learned about life, the military, and our nation the more I’ve become disgusted with my life choice. Do something worthwhile with your life.
It’s not for everyone, that’s for certain.
Plus, it’s very true that Military leaders are problematic at their best and totally inept and incompetent at their worst.
I’ve encountered both kinds in my 6 years.
However, it really depends on where you are stationed and which career field you go into.
Plus, one cannot disregard the immense benefits the military can provide.
My husband has a very good job in the military that more then provides for our family and gives us amazing benefits to boot.
We’ve both been able to take advantage of the college benefits the military provides and have been in the process of finishing our degrees for free.
That was huge for both of us and it’s something I can never thank the military enough…we’re able to advance our careers and provide more stability for ourselves and our children without taking on any debt.
Plus, thanks to training, deployments and military programs…we’ve been able to pay down our debts to almost nothing.
The pros and cons of service within the military tend to cancel each other out in the long run.
I can’t stand my leadership and the redundancy and bureaucracy of the military machine is enough to want to take an ice pick to my eye sometimes.
But you cannot find those benefits anywhere else.
Free college, debt repayment, outstanding health care, pensions, good pay and a leg up within the private sector…and that is just the tip of the ice berg.
For what it’s worth…I can’t get out of my contract fast enough.
I cannot be a good Catholic, a good mom and a good wife while serving in the military. Not without compromising something…whether it’s morals, time with my kids or time with my husband.
Having both my husband and I in the military has made it that much more difficult as well.
They are “family-friendly” on paper and that is it.
When I announced I was pregnant for a third time (in 5 years no less)…the looks I got were enlightening to say the least.
I’ve been labeled as a failure to train because, well, I just keep getting pregnant.
However, for some people the military is good and worth it.
My husband is good at being in the military and is a good Catholic as well.