Missed my one chance of love and I can't move on

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Rose it’s me where have you been?
(just kidding).
Anyways I’ve gone through something like this. If you really want to contact him and you know his name isn’t there a way of tracking him down through linkedin or facebook or twitter? Or you could ask people who were acquainted with him.

Maybe God is trying to have you learn a lesson. I know what my lesson was: don’t be so picky when looking for a romantic partner. I was constantly looking for someone better around the corner. I was a shopoholic. So when I met this one girl who was interested in me, I didn’t really show much interest. Turns out she was probably perfect for me and I just didn’t realize it at the time. Years later I’ve been trying to get her to go on a date with me. She’s not ready for that yet because she recently broke up with her boyfriend. But I still hope and pray.
You might want to try dating other people. It’ll make you feel better for a little while at least.
 
Let go of the past now, if it is/was meant to be it would happen. Sometimes in life we get this idea of what things would be like with someone we are interested in and even imagine marrying and seeing them as the perfect man but a lot of the time they usually aren’t how we expect them to be in our head. Don’t dwell on it if your meant to meet someone you will.
 
Let go of the past now, if it is/was meant to be it would happen. Sometimes in life we get this idea of what things would be like with someone we are interested in and even imagine marrying and seeing them as the perfect man but a lot of the time they usually aren’t how we expect them to be in our head. Don’t dwell on it if your meant to meet someone you will.
 
There may be “meant to be’s” and the like. Most likely there aren’t.

There is a propensity in our psyche to deeply want what cannot be had. The reason is simple: If it could be had, we could go for it; since it cannot, only the wanting remains, like an itch with your hands bound.

The world is full of unrequited love, and someone who will match you, if indeed you being with someone is the will of God.

Breathe, walk on, and discern God’s will.

ICXC NIKA
 
Something that was meant to be will always keep coming back. In the meantime don’t stop loving.
 
You should not beat yourself up for not entering into a relationship when the time wasn’t right for you. That is not selfishness.

I have no idea where you got the idea this is your “one chance at love.” You barely know him. You don’t even know if he would have turned out to be a “chance” or not.

I am among those who was engaged to be married and it didn’t work out. To my great surprise, people who had broken off an engagement or had it broken off came out of the woodwork to tell me their stories. They were all happily married.
 
The thing that helped me move on was this. While we were talking about getting married, I asked what she expected from marriage and they were all things, material things. During the time we were dating, I met a young lady who was very much like her and from the same part of town. One day, I came to work and she had a rock - a rock - on her finger. I asked her who the lucky guy was. She told me. I then asked her what she liked about him: he had things and made an above average income. Shortly after, she quit work. About a year later, I saw her again one day. She came back because she was bored. That was the last time I saw her.

I’m not putting all this on women, but please, before the ceremony, ask each other what you really expect from marriage. The young lady I was with was as near perfect as I would like, we got along, we had similar worldviews, but… something was missing. Thank God I asked her.

Ed
 
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