Missing mass because of illness

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Ok, so I feel fine today. I’m recovering from pneumonia, and I’m still a little contagious and still coughing a little bit, but otherwise I feel fine and I have good energy. I chose not to go to mass today not so much because I couldn’t handle it but because I was more worried about spreading my illness. Is this a legitimate reason to miss? I almost never miss and I’m definitely not looking for excuses.
 
Ok, so I feel fine today. I’m recovering from pneumonia, and I’m still a little contagious and still coughing a little bit, but otherwise I feel fine and I have good energy. I chose not to go to mass today not so much because I couldn’t handle it but because I was more worried about spreading my illness. Is this a legitimate reason to miss? I almost never miss and I’m definitely not looking for excuses.
If you are still contagious, you are doing other people a favor by not attending Mass and spreading your germs, IMO. A couple of years ago a man was sitting by me in Adoration and had one heck of a cold, coughing and sneezing all over the place. He should have been home in bed. Well, about a day and a half later, guess who came down with one of the worst colds I’d had in years, and I had to miss work and ended up at the doctor’s with bronchitis, and was miserable. I knew it was from him because I had no other exposure and he was obviously very sick and spreading his droplets everywhere.😦
 
Stay home. If you are “recovering” you are not likely contagious…BUT you should stay home to protect yourself.
 
I agree with the previous posters – especially if you live in a cold climate. Recovering from an illness, especially a serious one like pneumonia, is a legitimate reason for missing Mass – and if you have *any *suspicion that you may be contagious, please stay home. There are often elderly people and young infants at Mass, and it would be so dangerous for them to catch pneumonia.

It might be nice if you watched a Mass on EWTN or prayed the rosary, or spent some time meditating on this weekend’s readings in lieu of attending, though. (Not to imply that any of these would fulfill your Mass obligation – but since you are unable to fulfill your Mass obligation, some devotional time would not be a bad idea.)
 
Ok, so I feel fine today. I’m recovering from pneumonia, and I’m still a little contagious and still coughing a little bit, but otherwise I feel fine and I have good energy. I chose not to go to mass today not so much because I couldn’t handle it but because I was more worried about spreading my illness. Is this a legitimate reason to miss? I almost never miss and I’m definitely not looking for excuses.
If you’re still contagious, PLEASE stay home, for the sake of all the small children, the elderly, and anyone else who might be attending Mass with a weak or compromised immune system. Missing Mass due to illness is not a sin.
 
If you’re still contagious, PLEASE stay home, for the sake of all the small children, the elderly, and anyone else who might be attending Mass with a weak or compromised immune system. Missing Mass due to illness is not a sin.
Two years ago, I had the mother-in-law of all flu viruses. It was really bad and I was upset because I wanted to go to Mass. One of the priests at the priory I sometimes attend told me to stay home. As my fever was breaking, I managed to catch the live 3AM broadcast of the Closing Mass of the Synod on the Eucharist. Inasmuch as I wanted to go to Mass, I was very comforted watching the feed from Rome and listening to one of the best homilies I had ever heard.

Remember, even though you may be feeling okay, you are still vulnerable to the elements and could actually worsen your situation, especially if it’s cold outside and raining or snowing.
 
Your motivation is love of your neighbor. If I was your neighbor in the pew I would be very glad if you stayed home. Thank you, God bless you.
 
Stay home, turn Mass on your local diocese channel or EWTN, put your feet up, and offer it up. 👍 If you are going to be out next week, call your parish and have them bring you the Eucharist. You might not think you are sick enough to have somebody bring you the Eucharist, but leave this up to your priest or deacon.

Those of us whosit in the pews around you not only don’t want your germs, we want you well.
 
Thank you everyone for the advice. I did end up staying home today for that reason, but now I at least feel a little better about it. I just felt guilty at first because energy-wise I felt fine enough to go to Mass and I know that missing is a sin.
 
Thank you everyone for the advice. I did end up staying home today for that reason, but now I at least feel a little better about it. I just felt guilty at first because energy-wise I felt fine enough to go to Mass and I know that missing is a sin.
no not a sin if you are ill or other good reason, and your good prudential judgement is enough, thank you for not breathing on me, I have had my flu shot and pneumonia shot, but getting bronchitis or a bad cold can lead to months of misery because I have asthma. now get a nice cup of tea with lemon, and a shot of something warmer if you are allowed, put your feet up, and rest.
 
Two years ago, I had the mother-in-law of all flu viruses. It was really bad and I was upset because I wanted to go to Mass. One of the priests at the priory I sometimes attend told me to stay home. As my fever was breaking, I managed to catch the live 3AM broadcast of the Closing Mass of the Synod on the Eucharist. Inasmuch as I wanted to go to Mass, I was very comforted watching the feed from Rome and listening to one of the best homilies I had ever heard.
Yeah, sometimes I’m very grateful for televised Masses. I was very sick on Christmas Eve 2005, so I wasn’t able to go anywhere and had to back out on a planned duet for our parish’s Midnight Mass. Unfortunate because I love Christmas Eve even more than Christmas Day. 😦 However, I did get to lay on the sofa and watch Midnight Mass live from the Vatican, which was hugely comforting.
 
Ok, so I feel fine today. I’m recovering from pneumonia, and I’m still a little contagious and still coughing a little bit, but otherwise I feel fine and I have good energy. I chose not to go to mass today not so much because I couldn’t handle it but because I was more worried about spreading my illness. Is this a legitimate reason to miss? I almost never miss and I’m definitely not looking for excuses.
Hi Kepha. I, too, am recovering from pneumonia. I missed Mass the past 2 Sundays, and felt absolutely miserable about doing so. I felt fairly well last Sunday, but decided not to test myself so soon after being treated. It is one thing to think you have the energy to do your normal routine, but it is quite another to actually have the energy you think you do.
This is my 4th time having pneumonia, so I know without a doubt that when I start to feel better I really have to force myself NOT to jump back to my normal routine. It is extremely easy to relapse and end up even worse than before.
I am glad to see you decided to stay home today. Please, do yourself a favor and take it easy for another week, and decide next Sunday whether or not you are really well enough to attend Mass.
Feel better, and take very good care of yourself. Make sure you eat, even if you have no appetite, take all your meds, and get as much sleep as you need.
 
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