Moral or Not? Question about participation in reproductive technology

[UP27]

I have an acquaintance who has gone through the egg donor process over the last couple months. Yesterday, three out of the eight eggs that were fertilized (with her husband’s sperm and the donor egg) were implanted inside of her. I know this couple through my workplace and both know that I am a practicing, faithful Catholic; however, they do not know much about Catholic beliefs. To make a long story short, her husband is out of town and she has asked me to give her the hormone shot she has to take this week. She has difficulty giving it to herself and asked if I would do it. Their entire married lives, these two have been preached at by Catholics and feel judged and condemned. Because conception has already taken place, is it okay to participate in keeping these souls alive? If not, how do I handle this in sensitive way?

 

[Ruthie]

That’s a toughie.

I heartily recommend that you post the question to “Ask an Apologist.”

My opinion is that you would not be condoning their sin by giving her the shot. You could charitably say something like, “I can’t approve of the way you got pregnant, but I’ll welcome these babies with open arms!”

You would be protecting the new life. The sin is in the past - now there are 3 babies on the way.

I don’t know for sure that I’m right. It could be better to ask her to find someone else. That’s why you should ask the pros, on “Ask an Apologist.”

Also because I’m a new Catholic, and don’t have a good understanding of the “in vitro” issue yet, beyond the basics - that it’s wrong because it excludes the marital act.

I can’t believe I’m still up! :yawn: Goo’night and God Bless!

 

[felra]

Ruthie:

You would be protecting the new life. The sin is in the past - now there are 3 babies on the way.

Be prepared that you may also have to be the presence of Christ to your friend possibly tells you that her and her husband are not deciding about “selective reduction” of the babies in the womb.I would honor the new life, the 3 babies now living and growing inside the womb of your friend. Pray for wisdom and guidance. God bless.