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Some may have better explanations, but neither is rape.
- They are married, and that marriage seems to be her best situation available, and even then God does not tell the Israelite to rape her (pay close attention to the helping verbs), but only allows marriage and sexual relations. The Jews had always been reluctant against intermarriage (Moses being a famous exception) given the praiseworthy example of their forefather Jacob to go way out of their way to find someone of the same tribe. Earlier in Deuteronomy, they had been specifically told by God to do no such thing. Here, however, God allows it. It’s hard to imagine other religions in the ancients that would have been so deferential to the woman’s need to mourn, probably precisely because God knew that if allowed that month or so, things would normalize as well as could be under the circumstances.
- There is no rape if she is willing. The strong presumption is that she is willing because she easily could have cried out in those extremely otherwise busy and closely-juxtaposed huts. This is not the case for the fields, when it is a lot more easy to cart off an unwilling victim to a place of quiet to commit the crime. Had that law not been the case, then a guilty female party in the city could always say she was raped and get off free. I, for one, am not interpreting the law so harshly that it couldn’t allow for clemency in appropriate cases (for example, had the woman had been drugged). Maybe you could consult with a rabbi on that one.