I know I’m late to this thread but I came here specifically to find a thread talking about this.
What Dreher is proposing is very interesting and attractive because it takes the pressure off. Think about it: you get up in the morning and you look to the left and right and there are your neighbors and they have the same beliefs, customs and rituals as you. It’s a very comfortable idea. But I don’t think that is what the gospel is about, and I was proud to see that other people here feel the same.
I don’t think we can run away from any of this. There have been very dark times in the history of the church and Catholic Christians lived, suffered but most of all persevered through those times.
I know this is easy for me to say because I do not have children but I do not think Christ had running as an option. Recently I read an article written by Father John Hardon, S.J. that talked about martyrdom and the different ways it can play out, especially the Martyrdom of Persecution which he refers to as an un-bloody martyrdom. I found it encouraging.
therealpresence.org/archives/Martyrs/Martyrs_001.htm