In the washing and anointing, it was same-sex only. But the “five points of fellowship*”, a rather intimate masonic embrace at the veil (at the conclusion of the endowment ceremony), during which the last (and lengthiest) password was given, was always between the male or female initiate and a male “veil worker” who represented the Mormon god. Some women had complained that “god” got a bit excited during the embrace so that they detected a sixth “point of fellowship” through the veil. This was also publicized via the internet, so much so that the “five points of fellowship” was also dropped from the ceremony in 1990.
Paul
- From the pre-1990 endowment:
“The Five Points of Fellowship are inside of right foot by the
side of right foot, knee to knee, breast to breast, hand to back,
and mouth to ear.” The patron and the Veil Worker both reach
their left arm through the appropriate mark in the Veil, while
holding right hands in the Patriarchal Grip, and embracing each
other, maintaining strong contact at all the points indicated
with the Veil separating them, while the Veil Worker gives the
name of the token to the patron and the patron repeats it back
vebatim.
The name of the token is “Health in the navel, marrow
in the bones, strength in the loins and sinews. Power in the
Priesthood be upon me, and upon my posterity through all
generations of time, and throughout all eternity.”