When you stub your toe and say a bad word, it doesn’t seem so bad.
Then one day there’s a toddler who’s around, learning a new language, and it seems like maybe ‘gosh darn’ would be a good idea instead of that bad word. The reason is love. Love causes us to make better choices.
At the end of the day, have some prayer time and tell Jesus that you would like your heart to have more of his love in it, and you’re sorry you said some bad language. Ask him to help you make better choices. In trying to improve small things, it’s like exercising our muscles. We get stronger in our determination to stay the course. Just like that toddler who is learning to walk. They might be hanging on the coffee table to get about, but in not too long a time they will be learning to ride a bike. So it is with making an effort to love. God bless.