Mortal Sin and the Eucharist

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Might be a better Idea to wait until you are able to go to confession the next time so you can confess whatever mortal sin you have committed to the priest and then take Communion, it would make things better for you.
 
Hey Catholicommit, was your post an answer to mine? On second thoughts as you didn’t attempt to answer it I presume the answer is no and you were answering the OP. Sorry to trouble you.

God bless

JTG’S
 
Jimmy my response was for the poster who asked the question, why would you be troubling me?😃
 
I committed a mortal sin this week. I was not able to go to confession this week because I have small children and have had trouble finding babysitters for them. (Hubby works on Saturdays).

I would really like to receive Communion tomorrow, but obviously not in a state of mortal sin. I once heard that it is ok to receive Communion in mortal sin if one said the act of Contrition and then promised to confess ASAP.

I know for CERTAIN I’ll be able to go to confession next saturday. My husband will be working third shift that night so he’ll be home during the day to watch the kiddos.

Is it ok to receive and say an act of contrition if i have every intent to go to confession next Saturday? Should I wait?
Please read this document: ewtn.com/library/CURIA/CDWFREQ.HTM

It’s about Daily Communion, but it also talks about receiving Holy Communion and mortal sin. I hope it helps.
 
Jimmytwoguns, I don’t know you from Adam, you may well be a wonderful and peaceful gent, but your posts come across as argumentative and as nasty as you seem to imagine others are on this thread. People have tried to answer your question and between them all, they have made a good attempt.

You are correct in stating that God can and does forgive sin outside of the confessional. The point is that the Church teaches that for the Catholic, confession to a priest is the ordinary and the most reliable way to have one’s sins forgiven. You need only be imperfectly sorry and not perfectly sorry as one would hope to be in the circumstance where one might die un-shriven.

The forgiveness of mortal sin when one deals directly with God is not as sure as one can be in the confessional as only God can judge the degree of our “perfect contrition.” What happens if it turns out not as perfect as we imagine? Are you willing to risk going to hell if your contrition isn’t perfect enough? We humans are very good at deceiving ourselves in such matters. The Church also commands that to worthily receive communion one must have confessed his mortal sins, if any, to a priest before receiving the Eucharist. Neither you nor I make the rules so we are stuck with accepting them or walking away from our Church. Be at peace and try to be a little less argumentative when people are trying to help.🙂
 
Its very simple St Paul’s epistle to Romans, Ch10 v 9. “If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe in thine heart that God hast raised him from the dead, though shall be saved”.

Let’s stop pretending that a priest has some sort of magical power, Unfortunatley, to our eternal shame, we hear of priests interfering with children and their disgusting acts being covered ny our One Holy Catholic and Apostolic Church. Is this the same priest who is apparently deciding if we are really contrite in our confession? If so, what happens to our genuine confession to a paedophile pretending to act as a “pontifex” between God and man.

Stop being silly and live in the real world. We are Roman Catholics. We believe that Our Lord died for our sins and rose again from the dead. If this was not so as Saint Paul said, " We are of all men most misereable" - Don’t get me wrong. You could not get a more enthusiastic RC than me. But I won’t listen to rubbish trotted out to support a ridiculous position.

Jimmy two guns
Jimmy, so you assume some of us Catholics believe priests have some sort of magical power?

Do you not believe, as our Church teaches us, that the priest serves in persona Christi (“in the person of Christ”) when he absolves us from our sins during the sacrament of Reconciliation? Do you not believe the priest serves in persona Christi when he invokes (“calls down”) the power of the Holy Spirit during the celebration of the Eucharist, so that the bread and wine may be made the Body and Blood of Jesus? This is NOT the priest’s “magic” – through Holy Orders, he is ordained to do these things – he is God’s instrument – incidentally, no matter how sinful he may personally be. No matter how holy any given priest may be who is administering the sacrament of Reconciliation, it is through him that we are restored to ecclesial communion. It is “God’s action through the intervention of the Church,” specifically through the priests and bishops, that we are forgiven for our grievious sons…

THAT is the “real world” of living as a Catholic – “enthusiastic” Catholics are to assent to the teachings of the Church. And since the beginning of the Church, she has taught us that we may NOT receive the Eucharist unworthily. Count your blessings, Jimmy, in the early days of the church, people confessed their mortal sins out loud, publicly (and the priest, the Lord’s agent, loosed or bound them).
from the CCC:
1484 "Individual, integral confession and absolution remain the only ordinary way for the faithful to reconcile themselves with God and the Church, unless physical or moral impossibility excuses from this kind of confession."95 There are profound reasons for this. Christ is at work in each of the sacraments. He personally addresses every sinner: "My son, your sins are forgiven."96 He is the physician tending each one of the sick who need him to cure them.97 He raises them up and reintegrates them into fraternal communion. Personal confession is thus the form most expressive of reconciliation with God and with the Church.
I suggest you read the part of the Catechism which explains the sacrament of Reconciliation, perhaps especially sections 1444, 1448, 1450, and 1456

scborromeo.org/ccc/p2s2c2a4.htm
 
Rwoehmke - Many thanks for your post and please forgive me (especially Easterjoy) if I come over as belligerent. My sincere apologies. Many, many years of fighting my clients’ corners in criminal courts have left me with an aggressive attitude to most things. One day, instead of some weak, wishy-washy self promoting, self important, failure in private practise, cowardly, politically correct judge: the police, who make it up as they go along, will be judged by the one true judge, for perjury and that will be well worth watching!!! That being said brother, when you say – “The forgiveness of mortal sin when one deals directly with God is not as sure as one can be in the confessional as only God can judge the degree of our “perfect contrition.” - Then, frankly in my humble opinion (I don’t mean that sarcastically) that simply does not make sense. If only God can judge the degree of our perfect contrition (and I agree that is completely correct) and the priest cannot, then how is our forgiveness any more sure when confession is made to a priest as, by your own admission only God knows the reality of our confession? Our contrition is a matter for us, not anyone else. It is our soul, and yes, we should be very, very careful that our contrition is complete and only God knows if it is. But, in the hour of us passing from this life, I doubt we would be stupid enough to lie to either God or ourselves. What is the point?

This is what I meant by “magical” powers. Yes the Priest undoubtedly has the power to forgive, standing as he does in persona Christi, but he is not a mind reader and so is no better equipped to know if we are truly sorry than we are. In fact, if we examine our conscience properly, we are in the better position to know. Although I would agree that we come close to Christ in the sacrament of penance, we also come close to Christ when on our knees with a contrite heart pleading for his forgiveness. I keep on saying I’m not knocking confession. I go to confession, but it is not the only way by which we can be forgiven.

Further, your statement that one can be imperfectly sorry and be absolved, what’s that all about? You’re either sorry or you’re not. If you’re not then there’s no absolution. if you are and repent, with the intention of not committing the sin again you are absolved.

Quiet 52 you state - This is NOT the priest’s “magic” – through Holy Orders, he is ordained to do these things – I agree entirely and hope my explanation above about what I meant by magic clears things up for you. Of course through Holy Orders the priest baptises (confirms in some circumstances) absolves, offers the mass etc.

However when you state - “He (the priest) is God’s instrument – incidentally, no matter how sinful he may personally be.” – then I’m going to come out and say that I don’t agree with that assertion. Please don’t think I’m being naïve or don’t understand the argument as it has been presented over the centuries. I understand Luther supported this argument, but in all conscience, as a fellow lawyer, I don’t. Yes a priest can be sinful (he’s human) and get up to all sorts of personal mischief and still may remain God’s instrument, standing in persona Christi.

To use the words of EasterJoy – with which I agree – “Through fidelity to his priestly office however he (the priest) does have the power to forgive sins. This is a gift that does not come from his own personal holiness, but from the one perfect Priesthood of Jesus Christ, of which he is a minister.” But - also to use the words of Easterjoy, with which I also concur - “The mark of baptism may not be removed from you, but you are perfectly capable of removing yourself from the truth into which you were baptized.

Amen to that! It is not from his personal holiness his (the priest’s) power comes, but to say, as you do – “the priest is God’s instrument …. NO MATTER HOW SINFUL HE MAY BE”, is in my opinion misguided and only adhered to because it is thought, how else is one able to be sure that the priest is fit to absolve? So it is forced upon those holding this utterly untenable postion and one which conflicts with the ideas of holiness and sanctification of the priesthood as taught in scripture, to assert that no matter what evil this priest does, even if he is an abonination and a slave of satan, until he has been discovered, by the justice system or whoever, he is always able to act “in persona Christi”.

In my view this is nothing short of blasphemy and the fact that there is a difficulty about this vital matter does not mean we simply adopt an untenable position. Surely, if a priest shows no fidelity, and is utterly unfaithful to his priestly office apart from going through the motions, and sins to the extent he involves himself in heinous sin such as paedophilia, or devil worship, or some such great evil, then surely he no longer stands in persona Christi as he effectually turns his back on his ordination, and even excommunicates himself from Christ’s Church, and I would submit he cannot be said to be acting in persona Christi. I think these forums are to examine truthfully the concerns we have and I frankly do not believe that such a priest as outlined above, carrying out evil acts would be used by the Holy Spirit to test people’s state of contrition, offer advice, help and absolve them from sin when he has so clearly turned his back on his Faith.

I go to my own confessor (lpriest) and confess, but I also confess to God almighty who sent his son to die on the cross on my behalf and I know he hears me.

Further , Quiet 52, you state - . Count your blessings, Jimmy, in the early days of the church, people confessed their mortal sins out loud, publicly (and the priest, the Lord’s agent, loosed or bound them)" So, why do we now have private confession, and the unbreakable seal of the confessional?

God bless Benedict XV!

JTG’S
 
That being said brother, when you say – “The forgiveness of mortal sin when one deals directly with God is not as sure as one can be in the confessional as only God can judge the degree of our “perfect contrition.” - Then, frankly in my humble opinion (I don’t mean that sarcastically) that simply does not make sense. If only God can judge the degree of our perfect contrition (and I agree that is completely correct) and the priest cannot, then how is our forgiveness any more sure when confession is made to a priest as, by your own admission only God knows the reality of our confession? Our contrition is a matter for us, not anyone else. It is our soul, and yes, we should be very, very careful that our contrition is complete and only God knows if it is. But, in the hour of us passing from this life, I doubt we would be stupid enough to lie to either God or ourselves. What is the point?
Jimmy, it is not a matter of trying to lie to God or not being complete. Yes, one is sorry and may be convinced in one’s own mind that it is perfect contrition, but as I said, we humans are good at fooling ourselves and it is God who is the Judge. We may very well be truly sorry, but the reason for that sorrow is all important.

When it comes to contrition, being sorry for having sinned, the Church has always taught that there are two kinds of contrition, perfect and imperfect. When one is sincerely sorry because he has offended God who is all good and loving and for no other reason, it is called perfect contrition. In case of death before one is able to confess mortal sin, the Church teaches that such contrition can save one from damnation. We can hope.

The “catch 22” is that we can be sorry and contrite with rather mixed motivation, maybe mostly for other reasons like fearing hell or because we have hurt or offended others. We may still feel attracted to that sin, maybe not completely sorry, but not intending to do it again. That is called imperfect contrition and the Church teaches that when we confess our sins to a priest, are even imperfectly contrite, and receive absolution we are forgiven.The priest takes our word for it that we are at least imperfectly contrite.

In a confession where one is not at all sorry and intends not to even try avoiding the same sin in the future even the absolution by the priest is of little value. When we have committed one or more mortal sins, the Church requires that we confess them at least once a year, to not do so is an additional serious sin. To confess as soon as possible seems a reasonable recommendation. Whether all this seems logical or not, that is what the Church teaches.

I have a good friend who has been a Public Defender for years. We just elected him Circuit Court Judge in our county. It will be interesting to see how he does on the other side of the bench. 🙂
 
The “catch 22” is that we can be sorry and contrite with rather mixed motivation, maybe mostly for other reasons like fearing hell or because we have hurt or offended others. That is called imperfect contrition and the Church teaches that when we confess our sins to a priest, are even imperfectly contrite, and receive absolution we are forgiven.

I have a good friend who has been a Public Defender for years. We just elected him Circuit Court Judge in our county. It will be interesting to see how he does on the other side of the bench. 🙂

A) I agree, and I’m aware of the position when confessing to the priest. But also if we confess our sins directly to God and are imperfectly contrite we are still forgiven.

B) I wish your friend well and hope that his time as a Public Defender will help him to consider the evidence given by the police with a sceptical mind. I had a friend who was a defence QC (Queen’s Counsel) in the High Court for years, but when he became a judge told me that he believed the police and convicted even when he was sure that they were lying. I’m sure your friend will not behave in that manner.

God bless

JTG’S
 
Amen to that! It is not from his personal holiness his (the priest’s) power comes, but to say, as you do – “the priest is God’s instrument …. NO MATTER HOW SINFUL HE MAY BE”, is in my opinion misguided and only adhered to because it is thought, how else is one able to be sure that the priest is fit to absolve? So it is forced upon those holding this utterly untenable postion and one which conflicts with the ideas of holiness and sanctification of the priesthood as taught in scripture, to assert that no matter what evil this priest does, even if he is an abonination and a slave of satan, until he has been discovered, by the justice system or whoever, he is always able to act “in persona Christi”.

In my view this is nothing short of blasphemy and the fact that there is a difficulty about this vital matter does not mean we simply adopt an untenable position. Surely, if a priest shows no fidelity, and is utterly unfaithful to his priestly office apart from going through the motions, and sins to the extent he involves himself in heinous sin such as paedophilia, or devil worship, or some such great evil, then surely he no longer stands in persona Christi as he effectually turns his back on his ordination, and even excommunicates himself from Christ’s Church, and I would submit he cannot be said to be acting in persona Christi.
Jimmy, back in St. Augustine’s times in North Africa, there was a heretical and eventually schismatic group, the Donatists. They were rigorists, holding that the church must be a church of saints, not sinners, and that sacraments, such as baptism, administered by traditores (Christians who surrendered the Scriptures to the authorities who outlawed possession of them) were invalid. This heretical group eventually split off from the Church and the heresy died out within about 300 years.

Augustine and the Church has always held that the state of the soul of any validly ordained priest did not invalidate any of his sacramental functions or his ability to celebrate a valid Mass. He only had to intend to do what the Church intends. This teaching has a long history going back over 1600 years. So as distasteful as it is such men still act in the person of Christ when administering the sacraments and saying Mass. To believe otherwise would throw the whole system into chaos, because who could be sure that their priest was free of any mortal sin. One could never receive a sacrament or attend Mass with confidence.

 
Through the Sacrament of Confession…we receive reconciliation with God.

Have you ever had a friend or loved one hurt you? Doesn’t it sometimes work out that the friend doesn’t speak to you again? Now if you forgive them, but the friend doesn’t want anything more to do with you, do you have a relationship?

That’s how it is with confession, God can and does forgive us, but in order to be reconciled we need confession ordinarily. Also for confession with a priest, only imperfect contrition is necessary. Imperfect contrition means to be sorry because one fears punishment.

Perfect contrition means we are sorry because our sins were against God, who is perfect and does not deserve our sins. Because most of us are not absolutely positive that is why we are sorry we can’t normally know if we have perfect or imperfect contrition.

So going to confession is a good way to assure that you have made the necessary reparation to God and that your relationship with Him is intact.
 
I’m well aware of what imperfect and perfect contrition are. But to say that we can be imperfectly contrite to have the priest absolve us by God’s power, but cannot be imperfectly contrite to ask God to forgive us by God’s power is not only illgical, but incorrect.

I’m fully aware of the donatist heresy, (arian, pelegian, gnostic etc) and have studied Church history for many, many years. I am also fully aware of even Luther’s position on this, nevermind Augustine’s, and I agree with it, but the priest I’m talking about is one who by his acts has excommunicated himself, turned his back on the church and only pretends, not intends, to do what the Church commands. Otherwise I agree.

VC, If we confess our sins, he is faithful amd just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. This does not mention confession to a priest and in the context in which this was written and at the period in history, this cannot be inferred.

Mary Gail 36 It is God who absolves, whether by his priest or himself, so the same conditions fdor absolution must pertain in each case.

God bless

JTG’S
 
Jimmy,

Can you clear something up for me regarding your position? I can’t tell if you think a) the Church teaches that the sacrament of confession is normative and necessary and you disagree OR b) the Church doesn’t teach that the sacrament of confession is normative and necessary.

Perhaps by clearing that up it can help us engage you in conversation.

Thanks,
VC
 
Hi VC.

Firstly, can I just say that I absolutely agree that the Church teaches the sacrament of penance, and that the norm is confession to a priest and absolution. I attend confession and I love the feeling of assurance that my sins are forgiven. What’s more the fact I’ve actually told another human being what I’ve done (and I’ve done some stuff) helps me enormously.

As far as “necessary” is concerned I’m aware that the Council of Trent stated confession to a priest was necessary. Now the question is necessary for what? For salvation? If so, how are genuine God fearing protestants saved? If it means necessary for Catholics just because the Church says so, then I’m not so sure that the word necessary has the same meaning at this stage.

Catholics are bound as Catholics to go to confess their mortal sins once a year, and I do. I go a lot more than that. But as far as necessary to salvation is concerned, unless we believe that only those in the Catholic Church will go to Heaven, then logically confession to a priest cannot be necessary to Catholics for salvation, but not to Orthodox or others.

I firmly believe that when I confess to God he hears me and forgives me. I also feel as catholics we get too tied up with this idea of perfect or imperfect contrition, as if God’s looking for some way to get us if we make a slip.

In the early Church, confession was not private and was less frequent and there is no doubt there is a growing trend in the Church to head towards the sacrament of reconciliation.

I personally like private confession to a priest if I have committed a mortal sin, a biggie, but I also pray to God to forgive me too immediately I start to feel repentance for what I’ve done.

In the end it’s God who forgives and we need to be less legalistic about things and more repentant. I’ve just been reading a thread about whether after you have recieved communion in one kind, you should bow to the chalice or not. The OP said no as he had Christ within him and so bowing to the chalice was unnecessary. Apart from the fact I disagree with him, is this the type of thing we feel it important to be discussed and debated. Legalism and form is that all we care about?

I will always listen to the Church, but we have Christ and his apostles words too, and I will listen to them first.

God bless,

JTG’S.
 
This thread has strayed from the OP. Please take any side discussions to new or exiting threads. Thank you all.
 
Please keep in mind the criteria necessary for a mortal sin:
Full knowledge, Full consent, and the matter must indeed be grave.

I think some folks get hung on the “grave matter” of a particular sin and neglect the other two aspects. For example, adultery is a grave matter especially after having received the sacrament of marriage. Yet for a person in a broken marriage, who commits either a solitary act of lust, or engages in lustful acts with another person there is question as to the degree of antecedent passion that would mitigate the “full consent” aspect. Moreover, the person may not realize fully the Church’s concept of marriage and what is required of both spouses in that regard to make the marriage full and pleasing to Christ, the Church, and also themselves. And that in turn inhibits the “full knowledge” dimension.

Whatever we never judge the sinner. Only the sin.
Christ himself never held any person’s sins bound. Similarly those placed in authority over his flock and exercise their ministry to bind rather than loose are going to have to give a serious account of their actions before God. With all respect, the Latin Rite church has a tendency to be very legalistic - and in litigious civil societies like the US - we have a tendency to loose sight of the concept of law as something that can set someone free rather than only to bind.

When you truly love someone, there is an outpouring of yourself… a “kinosis” that is what Christ did on the cross in obedience to the Father for all of us. Christ’s love for us does not change nor does his outpouring of grace for us. The hangup is us and what we put in the way of our relationship with Christ. It can be a matter of “grave sin”, but it could also be a matter of “great scruples” in dictating theological constructs and cannon law outside a spirit of love.

I would like to recommend for consideration that following a true mortal sin, the person has no desire to return to Christ, through any means of their own. It requires an act of grace from God to move their hearts to repentance. I would recommend further, that in a state of mortal sin, the sinner in fact flees god and flees what is holy. If they participated in any sacrament, they be quite apparent… scoffing at it… poking fun at it… treating with disrespect and aversion.

No sinner who turns to Christ is ever foresaken. As a matter of fact, as the sinner continually returns to God’s mercy, they in fact become more humble. And that humility ultimately achieves their union with God and defeats Satan, no matter how many battles in the interim Satan may have claim to have won against the sinner. The war was already won by Christ and for those who are poor in spirit (humble) they fear (in the filial sense) God and earnestly pray “have mercy have mercy have mercy” so that “His will may be done on Earth as it is in Heaven”

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is the normative means of reconciliation with the Church and Christ. One must remember that their mortal sin not only wounds themselves, but the body of Christ (the Church) as well. Therefore it is right and fitting, that if the contrition is genuine, the penitent sinner will make a normative act of reconciliation to the Church (that is a public act here on Earth saying “I am not this sin is not me!! have mercy” and that action will likewise bring them into communion again with Christ and His Church.

Peace be with your spirit.
 
Just wait, but go to confession asap. Make Spiritual Communions often.
ewtn.com/devotionals/prayers/blsac4.htm

You can attend mass, offer the mass for your loved ones, and conversion of sinners, prostrate when the consecrated host and chalice is lifted up, but do not receive communion out of reference.

Make act of contrition often, say, Jesus, have mercy on me a sinner.

You must watch and be vigilant, lest you fall

Pray without ceasing

saintsarefamily.blogspot.com/
saintsbookscatechisms.blogspot.com/

There are eucharistic miracles to let you know that consecrated host and wine is body blood soul and divinity of Jesus Christ, they became real flesh and blood of Jesus.
miraclesofthechurch.com/2010/11/miracles-of-eucharist-eucharistic.html
eucharisticmiracles.blogspot.com/

May the merciful Jesus bless you
 
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