Augustine3 said;
Since this was not a command by the Lord but simply permission by Moses due to their hardness of hearts and in light of the “spark of God’s original plan in their hearts”, was divorce considered to be even a slight sin at that time e.g. venial sin?
Hi Augustine3,
This is what Jesus said about divorce;
Matthew 19:3-9;
And Pharisees came up to him and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful to divorce one’s wife for any cause? He answered, “have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one.” So they are no longer two but one. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder."
They said to him, “Why then did Moses command one to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” He said to them, “For your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for unchastity, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries a divorced woman, commits adultery.”
You will notice that his disciples are not happy with what he has to say. Here are their words; "The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is not expedient to marry.”
The problem is not with divorce as much as it is with not being able to remarry. One can divorce and remain in good fellowship with the Church, but, without an annulment, they cannot date or remarry, as in the eyes of the Church they are still considered to be married.
DesertSister62