Mother Theresa Clarification

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I asked a question of the Missionaries of Charity Fathers for information about the contention that Mother Theresa said something to the effect that she thought it the saddest thing to see people receive Holy Communion in the hand.

I was given an answer, and directed to a web site were the same answer was publicly posted. The web site very clearly states that its material there is copyrighted and may not be reproduced without permission so I won’t quote the site directly.

If you go to motherteresa.org/layout.html and choose the section marked “Information”, however, then under “Notifications”, then to “Quotes Mistakenly Attributed to Mother Theresa” and then click through using “previous” or “next” you will find a statement about the rumor that Mother publicly stated that witnessing reception of Holy Communion in the hand was “the saddest thing”. Although the Missionaries of Charity have chosen to receive on the tongue, they find the attribution of that particular statement to Mother Theresa dubious, because of her obedience to the Church and her opposition to behavior that would lead to arguments of this kind.

But I paraphrase. Please read the statement on your own:

And please, for her sake and out of respect for her sisters, whatever replies there might be to this, let them be made with the utmost charity, for the greater glory of God, and the good of the Church, as she would have wished.
 
I asked a question of the Missionaries of Charity Fathers for information about the contention that Mother Theresa said something to the effect that she thought it the saddest thing to see people receive Holy Communion in the hand.

I was given an answer, and directed to a web site were the same answer was publicly posted. The web site very clearly states that its material there is copyrighted and may not be reproduced without permission so I won’t quote the site directly.

If you go to motherteresa.org/layout.html and choose the section marked “Information”, however, then under “Notifications”, then to “Quotes Mistakenly Attributed to Mother Theresa” and then click through using “previous” or “next” you will find a statement about the rumor that Mother publicly stated that witnessing reception of Holy Communion in the hand was “the saddest thing”. Although the Missionaries of Charity have chosen to receive on the tongue, they find the attribution of that particular statement to Mother Theresa dubious, because of her obedience to the Church and her opposition to behavior that would lead to arguments of this kind.

But I paraphrase. Please read the statement on your own:

And please, for her sake and out of respect for her sisters, whatever replies there might be to this, let them be made with the utmost charity, for the greater glory of God, and the good of the Church, as she would have wished.
You are not breeching copyright by quoting any sentence she spoke on this. Also where on earth did you get the idea that giving a website link breeches copyright. That would mean nobody could read anything in any site on the web.
I’m not going through a whole process as you are suggesting to look this up.
Even if she said that it is totally irrelevant. The Church allows receiving on the tongue or in the hand.
 
Normally I receive on the tongue when I visit a Latin church.

There might be circumstances when it would be safer to receive in the hand (like a crowd at a mega-mass, though I’ve never been to such).

There are only two times when I would receive on the hand:
  1. Byzantine St. James, where it is called for by rubric.
  2. The Assyro-Chaldean liturgy, where it is their historical received custom. (They also purify their hands in the smoke of the censer before they receive, notice!)
 
You are not breeching copyright by quoting any sentence she spoke on this. Also where on earth did you get the idea that giving a website link breeches copyright. That would mean nobody could read anything in any site on the web.
I’m not going through a whole process as you are suggesting to look this up.
Even if she said that it is totally irrelevant. The Church allows receiving on the tongue or in the hand.
I’m sorry for any inconvenience. I would have posted a link directly to the quote, but I couldn’t get the link to work that way. If anyone can get a direct link to the quote, by all means please post it!

As for quoting from the site, the sisters make it quite clear that they would rather people not do that without their permission. If they want to provide the context for their own materials, I would like to respect that.

The point of posting this is not that we should follow Mother Theresa instead of the Church. It is that people have quoted her on this point in good faith, without being aware that it is highly unlikely that she ever said any such thing.

But, again, I think the sisters would rather people get their explanation at the source, rather than take a synopsis of their clarification from someone else. I posted this so that those who are interested in the quote could take a look at what the Missionaries of Charity have to say about it.

There are also other quotes in that part of the web site that the sisters note have been incorrectly attributed to Mother Theresa, BTW, along with some real quotes she was particularly fond of repeating.

This thread is more about publicizing a place to go to verify what Mother Theresa did and did not say, and not so much about the particular qustion of how one receives Holy Communion.
 
Thanks for doing the research EasterJoy. I had always had my doubts about the veracity of the statement and have never seen anyone able to come up with the actual place where it supposedly came from. It always comes from someone quoting someone claiming she said it.

I tried googling it a couple times and could never find a specific attribution in context. If it was even truly said I wanted to know in what context it was stated.

Again, thanks.
 
How many of her other quotes are verified and vetted by multiple sources?

As for whether or not it “matters” because the Church allows reception in the hand (via an indult - the preferred method is still on the tongue) - you might want to take a look at the Akita thread in this forum and especially Cradle Cath’s post on page 3.

Mother did very publicly receive on the tongue at all times and pretty obviously intended to make an example of herself.
 
How many of her other quotes are verified and vetted by multiple sources?

As for whether or not it “matters” because the Church allows reception in the hand (via an indult - the preferred method is still on the tongue) - you might want to take a look at the Akita thread in this forum and especially Cradle Cath’s post on page 3.

Mother did very publicly receive on the tongue at all times and pretty obviously intended to make an example of herself.
Bold is mine

I agree that communion on the tongue is the preferred method.

However, in her private writings that have recently been published, Mother specifically writes that she never wants to be an example for anyone for anything. She is very emphatic about that. She repeats it over 50 times in her writings. She did not want her name mentioned or associated with anything. She has even forbidden that the Society of Missionaries of Charity ever carry her name, even though we refer to them as Mother Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity to distinguish them for other communities also named Missionaries of Charity.

I highly doubt it that Mother would receive communion on the tongue with the intent to make an example of herself. It’s inconsistent with what she wrote and what she taught. I believe she did it because that’s what she came up with through the years. She was born in the early part of the 20th century. I have no idea when and if the Catholic Church in India began to receive communion on the tongue.

However, the Missionaries of Charity do receive communion on the hand when they are in dioceses that allow it. It’s up to each sister and brother of the Society. There is not rule in the constitutions regarding this.

Remember, the Cosntitutions of the Missionaries of Charity are based on the Rule of St. Francis. There is nothing in the Rule of St. Francis about the mass. The mass is never mentioned in the Franciscan rule. The Liturgy of the Hours is. It was a given that one attended mass when it was allowed by the confessor, spiritual director or the superior of the house. That has not changed and cannot be changed. The Rule of St. Francis has a papal bull placed on it. It requires another pope to change, delete or add anything to it. No pope has touched it since 1223. That’s why the Missionaries of Charity do not mention it in their constitutions either, other than the obligation to attend mass and to adore the Eucharist.

Fraternally,

JR 🙂
 
Bold is mine

I agree that communion on the tongue is the preferred method.
Good to hear.

(Since anything else is by indult, meaning a formal exception, it would be difficult to argue otherwise.)
However, in her private writings that have recently been published, Mother specifically writes that she never wants to be an example for anyone for anything. She is very emphatic about that. She repeats it over 50 times in her writings. She did not want her name mentioned or associated with anything. She has even forbidden that the Society of Missionaries of Charity ever carry her name, even though we refer to them as Mother Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity to distinguish them for other communities also named Missionaries of Charity.
I highly doubt it that Mother would receive communion on the tongue with the intent to make an example of herself. It’s inconsistent with what she wrote and what she taught. I believe she did it because that’s what she came up with through the years. She was born in the early part of the 20th century. I have no idea when and if the Catholic Church in India began to receive communion on the tongue.
I was not aware of that. There is no doubt that you know more about Mother Teresa than I.

I’d say, though, that despite her wishes, she was well aware that the world was watching her.

Also, many of the things she said could be categorized as “advice” - she wanted to have her opinions known (of course).

Also, I do not think her habit of reception on the tongue can be brushed away so easily. A great many people who grew up receiving on the tongue changed to what everybody else was doing when it became the common custom. She did not - she often went against the grain, and she knew full-well people were paying attention.

As for this particular quote, maybe she didn’t actually say it, but I think it would be strange for it to have been “invented”. Furthermore, since there are apparently many people who wish she hadn’t say it, I am wary of such arguments. (Although, frankly, it matters very little to me.)
However, the Missionaries of Charity do receive communion on the hand when they are in dioceses that allow it. It’s up to each sister and brother of the Society. There is not rule in the constitutions regarding this.
That is not surprising.
Remember, the Cosntitutions of the Missionaries of Charity are based on the Rule of St. Francis. There is nothing in the Rule of St. Francis about the mass. The mass is never mentioned in the Franciscan rule. The Liturgy of the Hours is. It was a given that one attended mass when it was allowed by the confessor, spiritual director or the superior of the house. That has not changed and cannot be changed. The Rule of St. Francis has a papal bull placed on it. It requires another pope to change, delete or add anything to it. No pope has touched it since 1223. That’s why the Missionaries of Charity do not mention it in their constitutions either, other than the obligation to attend mass and to adore the Eucharist.
The Mass may not be mentioned in Franciscan rule, but does that mean it’s not an important part of their lives? Does that mean that no good Franciscan would have opinions regarding it?
 
I’d say, though, that despite her wishes, she was well aware that the world was watching her.
You raise an interesting point here. In her cause of canonization it has been argued and accepted that Mother had no awareness of her impact on the world. She was so wrapped up in her contemplation of the Lord and his presence among the poor that she seemed totally clueless as to her consequence in the world community.

When she received the Nobel Peace Prize, she was assaulted by surprise that anyone had ever heard of her. She writes in her journals that “they must have heard about the work and it is the work that they want to honour.”

Like our father Francis, she was totally immersed in both material poverty and personal poverty. That is, she was aware of her nothingness before God and therefore assumed that she was also nothing to the world. Thus she was completley unaware that the world was paying attention.

There seems to be no psychological explanation for this, as she was a mentally healthy woman and an intelligent woman. The only explanation is a mystical one that is very difficult to unravel, other than to say that the soul who is wrapped up in God’s love and presence, lives in God’s eternal present 24/7.

This would make perfect sense as she wanted to imitate Christ as Francis had and love him in darkness. Therefore, it would be consistent that she would not be attentive or would even be dismissive of any attention paid to her. This was also proven true of our father Francis in the sermons of Bonaventure on the Master and the Disciple.

Mother seems to have captured that same spirit as her seraphic father. We really do not know how aware she was of her own presence in the world. We know that she was keenly aware of her call to satiate Jesus’ thirst in the poorest of the poor and she was keenly aware of world issues that devastated human dignity. She often spoke out on such things as abortion, the plight of the disabled and the elderly, the evils of discrimination (even religioius discrimination), and the importance of the family. But notice that all of these concerns are outside of her. She spoke nothing about herself, not even to her confessors or her spiritual directors. In her letters and journals she constantly repeats the same things to her confessors and spiritual directors, “I don’t want to speak to you, because I have nothing to say.”
Also, many of the things she said could be categorized as “advice” - she wanted to have her opinions known (of course).
Actually, no she did not want her opinions known. Franciscans are to be totally poor. We do not own our opinions. This has been a point of contention in contemporary times where a false brand of psychology has put it into people’s minds that they must be assertive and make their presence felt and voices heard (there is a good brand of psychology). This is completely contrary to Francis understanding of Christ’s poverty.

Our opinions on the holy are insignificant and do not warrant expression. The only opinion that warrants any public audience is Christ’s revelation of his Father. Franciscan assertiveness is the proclamation of the Gospel through silence, obedience, joy, poverty, charity, brotherhood and constant prayer.
Also, I do not think her habit of reception on the tongue can be brushed away so easily.
As already stated, the Church does believe that like Francis, she was totally unaware and not interested in what people attended to. As to receiving on the tongue, it is not point that is important to the Church in judging her cause. I do not know what the rule is in the diocese of Calcutta. We have to remember that the Society of the Missionaries of Charity were originally a diocesan institute. They were founded in the 1940s, but did not become an exempt pontifical community until the 1980s.
As for this particular quote, maybe she didn’t actually say it, but I think it would be strange for it to have been “invented”.
Her successor, Sister Nirmahla denies the quote. She believes that it is taken out of context. Her Brothers and Sisters also deny it. They say that whatever Mother said, it was not this black and white. They also claim that she never said such a thing to them. Their community receives communion in the hand in those dioceses where it is allowed. As Superior General, she had the authority to forbid it, but never did.
The Mass may not be mentioned in Franciscan rule, but does that mean it’s not an important part of their lives? Does that mean that no good Franciscan would have opinions regarding it?
The mass is the centre of our lives. Many holy Franciscans have written on the Liturgy of the Eucharist. Many of our theologians have written about the mass. Many of our priests and brothers have preached about the mass. Many of our lay brothers are spiritual directors and retreat masters. They certainly have a thing or two to say about the mass. Our Secular Franciscan Order has preserved the mass in countries where the Church has been under attack. Our Poor Clare nuns have a long tradition of Eucharistic adoration and have written much on the mass and on the Eucharist. You cannot be Franciscan and not be Eucharistic.

There is no reason to believe that it would not be important to Mother Teresa’s spirituality. Mother also borrowed a great deal from Benedict, who was totally Eucharistic and liturgical.

The issue is that neither Franciscans nor Benedictines are allowed to preach their own opinion. They may only preach what the Church teaches. Otherwise, they fail at the obedience that was dear to Benedict and Francis.

Fraternally,

JR 🙂
 
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