I do!!! I have an 18 yo, 15 yo, 13 yo, and 9 yo and I can tell you that I really see the difference in them compared to the babysitters I have had for them. That is about a 10-15 yr difference in ages. Here are just a few things I have seen: My oldest son (18 yo) applied to the city of Chicago(we live about 3 hours away) to hold a Great to be Straight rally and parade after he saw all the gay pride parades that were allowed. The city turned him down citing that it may inflame others and cause a riot. What a piece of ****! Anyway, he did all of this without any prompting from me, in fact I didn’t know about it until after he was rejected. That was junior year, he is a senior now, and I am proud to say that he confided in me that he is still a virgin and plans to remain so until he is married. He has been dating a wonderful young lady for 7 months and still has not changed his mind. I switched him from Catholic school to public school this year because I needed him to be there for his 15 yo brother that just isn’t Catholic school material, within the first week I had calls from the principal and dean of students telling me what a good job I must have done raising my boys after the oldest was overheard daring to speak up to a group of boys bragging about getting drunk and high…he said, “Oh, puking and acting like an idiot is fun? You are kidding! That is so not cool.” He has also volunteered to chaparone my 13 yo daughters dances after finding out that some boys were acting inappropriately at the dances. My other son I worried about more because he is more of a follower, until I had a confrontation with our local police that went like this: My 15 yo went up to the school to help his brother with musical practice, when it was over he started walking home. On the way home they had discovered that several cars had been vandalized and the police were called. So as my son was walking home he was stopped by the police asking him where he had been. He told them that he was at the school but he was inside during play practice so they let him go after he showed them his access badge for the stage crew. He kept walking, some kids he knew stopped him and asked why he was talking to the police so he told them. They asked if he knew who did it and he replied, “No.” One of the boys then showed him the rock he used to break the windows of the cars (3 total I think). Less than a block later he was stopped again by a different police officer and asked about the vandalism, this time he told the police what he knew. About this time he was about 30 mins later than I expected him to be so I called the school and my oldest told me about the cars and then told me he sent his brother home 10 mins ago but he was staying to console the music director as her car was one of the ones damaged. OK it takes about 7 mins to walk to the school from my house so I went outside to see if I could find my son but I could not. In the mean time, I am starting to panic so I look down the street towards the school, I see a car along the side of the road not moving…starting to panic I had visions of my son being hit by a car or getting hurt…you know the mom paranoia thing, I started to walk toward the car, about a block away I see that it is a police car and my son is standing there talking to the police. I was so relieved that he was ok but mad that he was so late and scared that they might think he did it. I walked over to the police car and told my son that he was late and that I was worried about him. The police immediately told me that he was helping them so I asked why they couldn’t have driven 2 blocks to my house so that I knew my son was alright and they apologized. They asked him to identify the kids that he saw and he said yes. He was a little nervous about the kids knowing it was him but he knew it was the right thing to do.
The point is, the kids in high school today are much more moral than 10 or 15 yrs ago, they do get involved when they are given the chance. When the kids were young, the teens I had babysitting them were supposed to be the “good girls” from good families, yet both of the girls I had watch my kids have had kids out of wedlock, one married the guy the other one didn’t. The married one has really straighted up her life, she was on drugs when she got pregnant and this wasn’t her 1st pregnancy(she had at least 2 abortions). She is now a good mom and is a confidant of my 13 yo daughter who is now babysitting her daughter. Funny how things change! I am encouraged when I see my kids stand up for what they know is right especially when society puts pressure on them to “accept” every liberal idea that comes along. There is hope for our kids, I have seen it!!! They care about right and wrong, they care about our next pope, they are willing to get involved in helping others. I could go on but I think you see where I am going.