I’m not sure I agree that Snow White is a bad example of “strong”. She wasn’t physically strong in a sense, but she was very good and virtuous.
It’s been a while, but if I recall Snow White was supposed to be slain by the huntsman on behalf of the wicked queen… Snow White’s virtue endeared her to the Dwarfs. She didn’t wait around to be saved, she was poisoned. The prince recognized her and kissed her. They had met before.
Let’s take another film… “Gone With the Wind”
Which protagonist is a better example – Melanie or Scarlet? Scarlet might seem “strong” but where is her virtue? She pines away for a married man through 3 marriages. She does not express any love for anyone except herself. She exclaims, “I hate Melanie and her baby”. She banishes her husband from her bedroom because she wants to keep a tiny waist and wants no more children.
Melanie on the other hand, wow, how many good virtues did she have? The scene at Ashley’s birthday party, where everyone present had found out about the kiss between Ashley and Scarlet. Did Melanie react with revenge? She embrace Scarlet. That’s not the move of a “weak woman”.
Anyway, back to Brave, I liked it a great deal, because of the mother daughter relationship. It didn’t have much to do with a girl saving the day, but how a mother and daughter rectified their relationship.