Whoa, whoa, wait a minute! This sacrament is not about condemnation but about forgiveness!
The priest is not going to condemn you to hell or consider you to be a mass murdered. If you confess that you are angry with your brother, the priest willl simply ask you “Why?” It is not a sin to be angry…it is a sin to act upon that anger.
When you go into the confessional, simply say, “Bless me Father for I have sinned” and remember that you are speaking to Jesus…who already knows your sins.
Simply state your sins…have you sinned against chastity? How many times? Have you been verbally abusive to your parents? Have you stolen, lied, or gone to a palm reader?
I recommend that you go to
www.maryfoundation.com (did I get the website right?) and order the cd on confession by Fr. Larry. This will help you immensely.
I have often struggled with confession…once after 10 years, then recently after another 2 years. Read about the prodigal son and remember that Jesus awaits you with open arms. If you are an adult and this is your first confession, then it will go pretty easily…it will be a “General Confession” and your sins will be forgiven if yoiu approach it with a contrite heart and a genuine will to change.
God Bless and Welcome Home!