A
asdfasdfa
Guest
Hello, everyone! This is the first time I am using this site, so we’ll see how this goes haha. (this is a LONG story so buckle up). So currently, I am not catholic, but my girlfriend and her family are very religious. I am 16, so is my girlfriend (we are both in the 11th grade).
So basically, me and her have been dating for roughly 3 months, everything has been amazing, me and her are truly in love (and we still are) and I have done nothing to harm her. I was good friends with her siblings, and I have had a couple conversations with her parents. Everything was going amazing until the first day of the new year (i know, what a great way to start it haha). Basically me and her went out on a little date, and we were in my car making a youtube video for her little channel (she wanted to make a mukbang or something). Essentially what happened was that me and her got kind of close and starting kissing (nothing else mind you), and her dad suddenly shows up and starts cussing me out for, “doing inappropriate things in public.” He tells me that I can no longer talk to her and that if I do, he’ll get me arrested and that he’ll kill my whole family. According to my girlfriend, her dad isn’t very catholic and he essentially considers himself that because of her mother, who is (he converted to marry her). I love my girlfriend a lot and do not want to lose her, so this was very bad. I was also scared for my life as he said that he would kill everyone i loved dearly. Now, I talked to my parents about this and they told me they’d take legal actions if this situation escalated. They also advised me to not talk to her until she is 18, that way she is no longer under her parents control.
But here is the problem, we go to the same school. Fast forward a week, me and her start talking again (without her parents knowing). She told me about what happened and what her parents thought happened. Basically, her dad was convinced that we had sex and that she was no longer a virgin. He has also beat her and kicked her for what she “has done” with me. Now, here is some background. According to her, her dad is very abusive. He has beat her mom once before from arguing and now he has hurt his own daughter. She has told me many times that she has never really liked her dad as he is very unreasonable and very disrespectful at times. This being said, she has an amazing relationship with her mother (who I still respect after the situations that have happened). (Pt. 1)
So basically, me and her have been dating for roughly 3 months, everything has been amazing, me and her are truly in love (and we still are) and I have done nothing to harm her. I was good friends with her siblings, and I have had a couple conversations with her parents. Everything was going amazing until the first day of the new year (i know, what a great way to start it haha). Basically me and her went out on a little date, and we were in my car making a youtube video for her little channel (she wanted to make a mukbang or something). Essentially what happened was that me and her got kind of close and starting kissing (nothing else mind you), and her dad suddenly shows up and starts cussing me out for, “doing inappropriate things in public.” He tells me that I can no longer talk to her and that if I do, he’ll get me arrested and that he’ll kill my whole family. According to my girlfriend, her dad isn’t very catholic and he essentially considers himself that because of her mother, who is (he converted to marry her). I love my girlfriend a lot and do not want to lose her, so this was very bad. I was also scared for my life as he said that he would kill everyone i loved dearly. Now, I talked to my parents about this and they told me they’d take legal actions if this situation escalated. They also advised me to not talk to her until she is 18, that way she is no longer under her parents control.
But here is the problem, we go to the same school. Fast forward a week, me and her start talking again (without her parents knowing). She told me about what happened and what her parents thought happened. Basically, her dad was convinced that we had sex and that she was no longer a virgin. He has also beat her and kicked her for what she “has done” with me. Now, here is some background. According to her, her dad is very abusive. He has beat her mom once before from arguing and now he has hurt his own daughter. She has told me many times that she has never really liked her dad as he is very unreasonable and very disrespectful at times. This being said, she has an amazing relationship with her mother (who I still respect after the situations that have happened). (Pt. 1)
Last edited: