My masturbation addiction

[RusselSof]

Hi, I have been struggling with my masturbation problem. I am 17 and have masturbated for about 7-8 years. I used to do it usually everyday and can be more than once each day. I recently figured out that it is always a sin, however, I have gone to a confession but it is still really hard for me to avoid. I keep on holding to the point where my body feels unnatural (Emotionally and Physically) and start to have a Wet Dream (I have never had one before trying to stop masturbating recently). I am aware that this is most likely a habitual sin as I first encountered masturbating as I start touching myself and felt good feelings. I want to ask this: What if I have done masturbation again since it is difficult for me to really break my addiction instantly. Can I go to get communion? Confession is not quite possible as I am abroad for vacation and not used to the language used and situation. I know that asking a confessor is a way to go, but it is not quite possible during my vacation. Is the next time I do masturbation means that I have done a mortal sin and should avoid getting communion? Sorry to fill this topic with details on how I felt as I really need a detailed opinion on my case. Thanks for helping me out! God Bless!

 

[Irishmom2]

Your question is not uncommon or as unique as you may think. You may want to use the search feature while you are waiting for others to respond. There are numerous threads on your topic.

 

[Anicette]

It is not always easy to get off an “addition” instantly.
Some do it, for others it may take a lot of time. It is a gradual process.
Fight, you will finnally gain more self control.

 

[Hoosier-Daddy]

I’m sorry. Can I ask for a clarification? Is this a true addiction, like you cant help it even when in public or with others. Or is this compulsive behavior you struggle with failing control?

 

[RusselSof]

Still fighting here, I try to make myself busy whenever I am tempted and I pray for help too!

 

[RusselSof]

I think it is best to ask a confessor about it, but I would like to hear others’ opinion on the problem as well.

 

[Hoosier-Daddy]

Well it doesn’t really answer my question. If there is an uncontrollable compulsion then there may need to be some medical intervention. If however as is more common you just have a habit of sin with this matter there are other things you can do to help. Is being alone a trigger? Then curb your time behind a door. And when its night or you must be alone recognize it as a danger so you can guard against falling to temptation. Also in modern times technology is almost an essential aid for this sin. Look into sites that track your surfing and block some of it,
Finally, and I mean this. Have your backdrops or screens have holy images on them. Pray pray pray. Idle hands are the devils playground they say. Fold those hands and talk to God, or His Mother. For He sees all and wants to help you and free you from this vice. Make your body do your will not have power over you. This is the tone in life you develop your will and your character. It doesn’t get easier if you dont work out your spiritual muscles. Chastity extends into marriage.

 

[Rutherford2]

I keep on holding to the point where my body feels unnatural (Emotionally and Physically)

THIS is the most important moment, the point where you can break from your addiction once and for all. When you pass this point, your brain will rewire itself and you are finally free from this addiction. Try it.

 

[RusselSof]

My bad, I thought U were asking others on what they are thinking of my problem to be placed on which category. I think it is purely a compulsive behaviour. Thank you for your suggestion, I pray to thank God for helping me resist temptation everyday. Adding The Lord’s Prayer, Hail Mary and Doxology after praying at night as well. Thanks for helping me out Hoosier!