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How can I bring her back? I’m 18, she’s 33. She’s living with this guy, not married. I pray for her all the time, but I want to do something.
That’s a good start. I advised this to another poster in another section. You can make it more subtle but nevertheless beneficial for both of you. Suggest a date (which will include a mass), an appointment, like lunch in an interesting place after the mass. The idea is to get together. You are sisters after all. Try it every week and hopefully it will become a habit. Make the first move, propose a suggestion. Pay for the occasion if you can afford it or let her since most probably she is already earning a living. As a younger sister she’d probably like it if you ask her for anything.This kind of thing does wonder to build relationship especially for members of the family.Thanks! You guys are awesome!I’ve asked her to go to mass and she said maybe, I’ll just keep praying and asking
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I second this suggestion. Get together for the dates when you can, and make going to mass a part of the date. It is only with perseverence that it will become ingrained and an automatic thing that you don’t give a second thought to. Like tieing your shoe laces or reading the time on your watch. Be ready always, and pray, pray, pray.That’s a good start. I advised this to another poster in another section. You can make it more subtle but nevertheless beneficial for both of you. Suggest a date (which will include a mass), an appointment, like lunch in an interesting place after the mass. The idea is to get together. You are sisters after all. Try it every week and hopefully it will become a habit. Make the first move, propose a suggestion. Pay for the occasion if you can afford it or let her since most probably she is already earning a living. As a younger sister she’d probably like it if you ask her for anything.This kind of thing does wonder to build relationship especially for members of the family.
Build the relationship first. If she becomes very close to you and see that you care and as a friend, it would be easier to talk about other matters.
God bless you.
tell her she is going to HellHow can I bring her back? I’m 18, she’s 33. She’s living with this guy, not married. I pray for her all the time, but I want to do something.