- I don’t think of this as a religious act. I think of it as a personal development with a religious tone.
That is not real clear. It sounds like you are hoping to do something religious, something religiously meaninglul to you personally. How is it not a religious act?
- NEVER did I ever say that I thought I was bringing grace to myself by getting a tattoo. You grossly misread what I wrote and frankly I’m offended because I don’t think that at all.
I am dense. I miss your point. You are doing something related to religion in some way, but it has nothing to do with grace. Do you think that is possible?
- God isn’t telling me not to tattoo myself either. He gave me my body as my own, and I can tattoo it whether you or the Pope likes it or not. (I wonder if Benedict has one?!
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I see. So your body does not belong to God. You are not His. You have your private property and He has His. Your body is outside His jurisdiction. You can do with it as you please. It belongs to you and He has no claim on it. That is clearly what you are saying. It is your private business, but you are going to put His name on it.
- It’s not “some saying in Arabic”. It’s the Jesus Prayer. As you may or may not know, it’s one of the oldest prayers of our faith. Arabic has a personal meaning to me as well seeing as I’m learning it and I prefer the prayer’s meaning in Arabic as opposed to the English translation: they differ.
I am truly interested. Would you please try to give a translation in English that conveys the meaning you like better.
]5) Again, as I read over what you’ve written, I see that you aren’t listening clearly to why I am contemplating getting one. It is incredibly ignorant and, in fact, pathetic and stupid for someone to think that if they tattoo themself with a prayer, they will receive grace. That’s not why I’m doing this. The reason I’m doing this (let me state again, for the fifth time!):
The meaning of the prayer (Lord Jesus Messiah, have mercy on me, the sinner) shows ME, myself, I when I look at it that I am nothing. I can do nothing without Him because I am a sinner. And I’m so weak and forgetful and sinful, that I find it prudent to mark this on my body to remember it. Is that wrong?

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I really did hear you. I don’t know for certain that what you are contemplating is wrong, sinful. It might be and I don’t think you know either, or you would not ask the question.
What should we do in situations that we do not know what is right or wrong? How should we act?
Let’s assume you got in your car in the parking lot of the local school. You start the engine and put the transmission in reverse. You glance in the mirror and think you might have seen a flash. It might have been a kid on a tricycle or chasing a ball. It also might have been nothing, a reflection from another car’s chrome grill. You are not sure. Should you hit the gas? It might not have been a kid.
You seem to think that grace is not relevant to the discussion. You agree that a tatoo will not gain grace and say that grace has nothing to do with the proposition. Its just something you think will be personally meaningul to you as it relates to your religious faith or spiritual development. This could be where the flaw in thinking is.
I am not sure that we can do anything in life that is grace neutral. I don’t mean that it matters whether I have Corn Flakes or a muffin for breakfast. I don’t mean it matters if I wear a green or blue shirt today. I mean when we do something with intent. Jesus says we will be judged by every word that comes out of our mouths. Every single thing we say will matter and bear on our eternity. I am in big trouble. A tatoo is a statement.
Your intention is noble. There is no question, but I don’t think the contemplated action of permanently marking yourself, no matter what it is, can be grace neutral. Saint Maximillian said that everything we do either moves us closer to God or moves us away. If he is right and you agree that a tatoo will not gain grace there is only one other option.
You asked for opinions. That is why you posted. You have to expect to get them and you might not like what you hear.
How about taking a suggestion. Take a break. Be like the guy in the car who saw the flash in the mirrior. Don’t move. Let some time go by. See if this is so important to you later on, next year at Easter time.
You have asked total strangers on this forum their opinions. Do you have a spiritual advisor? Have you asked a spiritual guide about this? How about other people in your life who care about you, like family. What do they think? Have you asked, or were you just planning on surprising them or never telling them? The answers to those questions would tell you something important.