I had a nun as a spiritual director for awhile. It didn’t work out for me. Mainly because she focused on going to daily mass. What I’ve been needing is someone to guide me in living the faith day by day. Like, how to respond to people and how to be devout without going overboard. See, it isn’t alway easy to get to morning mass. Some days I can’t get up in time because of the time I got home and into bed. Other days, my schedule otherwise makes it impossible.
The right spiritual director, I have found, is like finding a good counselor. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the proper “fit.”