Need Advice

[idyll]

My boyfriend and I met in October when my roommate and his twin brother (who are friends) introduced us. the two of them went on to develope a sexual relationship out of their friendship. in march when he decided that they should date, she said no and no longer wanted to even be his friend. now that he has found someone else (a truely wonderful girl who he is having a great non-sexual relationship), my roommate has gotten jelous and wants to start up their sexual relationship with him again in hopes of getting him away from his new girlfriend. since she knows that both myself and my boyfriend know what she is up to, she has started to tell him stories about us to the brother while leaving out details, or completely making up stuff about us to tell him. all in an attempt to make herself look good and me and my boyfriend bad. the things is that, no matter what we say to him, he believes her over us and it’s causing a terrible strain on the relationship between the three of us.
this isn’t the first time she has tried to come between the two of them, or make me look bad to my boyfriend’s brother. i cannot go through another round of this as it is completely draining me both emotionally and pyshically and is starting to take it’s toll on my school work. the last time they didn’t talk to each other for a week and that was after a fist fight where the two of them could have easliy put each other in the hospital, and almost did. i know a week doesn’t seem like that long, but the two of them are otherwise incredibly close, and completely inseperatable. at this point they are still (thankfully) talking to each other, but his brother is no longer talking to me. not to mention she has also turned all our mutal friends that live in our dorm against me and my boyfriend.
does anyone know a way that we could resolve this issue, and hopefully drive this woman out of our lives for good?

 

[Didi]

Pray for her. Kill her with kindness. Those who spread lies will eventually be found out. If you treat her as kindly as possible, without compromising the truth, maybe someday she’ll realize what she’s missing.

Make sure you are receiving the Sacraments as often as possible – Reconciliation and the Holy Eucharist. Take some time to pray before Jesus in Eucharistic Adoration. Take this opportunity to build a prayer life with your boyfriend if you haven’t already. Pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy for her – it’s on ewtn.com if you don’t know it. Pray the Rosary together for a reconciliation between brothers. Entrust them to Our Mother Mary.

 

[idyll]

thank you for the advice. the both of us have agreed at this point to be nice to her and act like we have no idea what she is doing. we both have been praying seperately, but i think we will try doing it together.