newbie with a question

  • Thread starter Thread starter needananswer
  • Start date Start date
Status
Not open for further replies.
N

needananswer

Guest
hi iam new. and iam a catholic. i have a question. how can you tell if a girl is the type that will cheat? if a girl has a high sex drive does that mean she will cheat? if she has had a bad past does that mean she will cheat? if she is eal active online (youtube myspace ect) does that mean she will cheat?
 
Are you asking this as a Catholic? Is she a Catholic? Are you married?

Me thinks a troll’s amongst us…otherwise, please explain your choice of forums for this particular query.
 
every morning when you wake up look at the clock immediately. If the time has more than 2 odd numbers in it, (e.g. 7:13) do not date any girls you meet on this day. As long as there’s 2 or less odd numbers any and all girls that you run into will be faithful.

:rolleyes:
 
i am not a “troll” i am a catholic needing real advice. i didnt come here to get made fun of.
 
i am not a “troll” i am a catholic needing real advice. i didnt come here to get made fun of.
Easy, people. I believe you, my brother. The things you mentioned are important, but the most important thing is if she wants to change. You should make it clear to her that you want to live a good Catholic life, assuming that you do, and see if she is willing to at least explore the idea. If that doesn’t scare her off… she’s a keeper! (maybe)
 
f a girl has a high sex drive does that mean she will cheat? i
No it doesn’t. Does it make it more difficult? Yes. But millions of girls (and guys) deal with it.
she has had a bad past does that mean she will cheat?
Maybe. If she has violated the trust of her previous boyfriend(s) it would defintately be a red flag. What’s gonna make you any different? I don’t know about you, but I’m gonna shy away from such a girl.
she is eal active online (youtube myspace ect) does that mean she will cheat?
Depends. What kind of friends list does she have? Is she on there alot tawking to sorority sisters, classmates, friends etc? Or does she have moslty guy friends that perhaps send her inappropiate messages?

But the main thing to look for is she honest? Does she always tell the truth? Is her life an open book to you? Have you ever found her telling something less then the truth? If you have, best you phase her out.

Once a relationship turns serious only one person she comes to for pesonal conversations-ME.
 
hi iam new.
Nice to meet you. 🙂
and iam a catholic.
Good for you. 🙂
i have a question.
Good to hear. Let’s get started. 🙂
how can you tell if a girl is the type that will cheat?
We’ll get back to that later. 😉
if a girl has a high sex drive does that mean she will cheat?
Not at all. She may be a person with a high sex drive and a high resolve to stick to her word.
if she has had a bad past does that mean she will cheat?
Not at all. Some people with a bad past have later become some of the best people that have walked this Earth. Many saints have started from not very Catholic lifestyles. Saint Mary Magdalene, who become one of the purest women ever to be. Saint Augustin, who became a great bishop and one of the fathers of the Church. And more. People change. Especially if God is involved.
if she is eal active online (youtube myspace ect) does that mean she will cheat?
Not at all. People can use the Internet for good purposes and for bad ones, like almost anything.

Now back to your question.
how can you tell if a girl is the type that will cheat?
You can’t really. You don’t know who will fall to temptation and who will not. Can you know that you will never cheat? No. But you know that cheating is wrong and that you never want to do it. So find a girl who knows cheating is wrong and who never wants to do it. Better yet, find a good Catholic girl.

However, what Bama said is also right. If a person has a high sex drive, it may be more difficult to avoid cheating than to a person having a low sex driver, if all other factors stay the same. Someone who has already cheated may probably do it again, if nothing seems to have changed from that point in past. Someone who has wrong friends on the Internet may be pressured to do what those friends do. In some cases, the risk is higher, but ultimately you never know. This is also why I’m telling you to look for a good girl that believes that cheating is wrong and that wants never to do it.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top