I don’t like the idea of my kids watching TV (I have a 3.5yo and a 2yo) or videos. Prior to having them, I claimed that it would be very sparse. And “suddenly” I find them watching much more than I’d hoped, and when I limit it, they’re asking about it. Like many “family issues,” ours seem to come and go in waves: we’re really disciplined and free of trouble, then we relax, eventually realize it’s gone too far, and we jerk ourselves back into shape. We’re in the jerk into shape mode right now.
I’m not saying that everyone who doesn’t have kids yet is going to give in to this temptation, or that those who do manage to banish the tv are “too holy,” but I think it is valuble to evaluate kids programming, so that you know what is acceptable to you and what isn’t. The fact is, there are times when I intentionally plan for a certain about of tv/video viewing to give myself the freedom to complete a difficult chore or the ability to rise out of an exhausted stupor (especially after childbirth). I know it can sound horrible, but by golly (yes I said golly), sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. I do think it’s a joke to pretend our kids are gaining a valuble education by watching tv. I like to call it what it is: mind-numbing entertainment for them and little moments of freedom for me. Helps me discern better how much is too much.
I, for one, am not crazy about Dora, because they occasionally get a little too magical for me (wizards, trolls…). Blues Clues annoys me, but I don’t see it as too harmful in content (for what my kids are noticing at this age anyway). I’d be shocked if my child ever took notice of the possiblity that the frogginis are a gay couple (I didn’t notice that), or that the purple teletuby has a triangle on his head and a feminine voice. If I ever tried to turn off teletubbies because of that, rather than protect my son, I’d end up making him curious about it and end up introducing the sin to him, since he otherwise would have been oblivious to it. My biggest problem is that when we go to grandmas house where there is cable tv (we don’t have cable), the kids want to watch tv all the time and the grandparents add to the pressure. So I wish I knew more about those shows I don’t normally see, so I can easily weed out the viewing material when we’re there.
I try to avoid shows that show obvious sin (magic is the main one for the preschool crowd) in a positive way (dragon tales). I avoid shows in which the characters are bratty (arthur, berenstein bears), or are really bad but learn their lesson at the end of the show (because I don’t think 2-4 year olds will catch the lesson, but they will definitely catch the bratty tones etc.) I also try to avoid the shows that deal with issues that are too heavy for the age of the kids watching it (seems like most shows).
If you don’t find a website rating these shows, I bet you’d have great success just looking them up on your tv guide, and then posting questions about the shows here. All the different opinions would help me better get a sense of the shows anyway. (Plus I’d love to hear about these reviews)
God Bless,
TKC