No change seems to make a difference

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No matter what I do to try and change my situation, whether the attempt fails or succeeds, I still always seem like nothing creates a spark in me to feel passionate. I don’t ever feel the difference. I am in marriage counseling, etc… I just feel like if I don’t make some change, I will remain stuck until I die. I don’t want to make negative changes. I just want something to feel different and better. I don’t know if marriage, caregiving, my job, or something else is the major problem. I wish I could explain more effectively. Sorry for sounding so (pathetic??). Please pray for me. I am praying but haven’t had a recognizable answer yet.
 
What is the one thing you think you need to change the most?
Is it about yourself?
Your spouse?
Can it be changed?
Or is it your outlook that is dragging your marriage down?
Sorry to be blunt, but you keep starting these threads.
What exactly do you expect to get from counseling?
What is it that you are expected to acknowledge?
Start there.
i will pray for you.
 
Just a thought, have you been screened for depression? You may need treatment for that. Praying
God bless you.
 
In my experience prayer always works - but it can take years. As I work through struggles within myself, I try at least to take small steps everyday toward doing fully what faith teaches us. And through it all I thank God for life; for guiding and protecting us; for providing for us; for loving and forgiving us; for redeeming us; and for our faith. I ask Him to makes me an instrument of His love, His peace, His will. I ask “in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son and our Savior.” I pray the rosary every evening asking our Lady to pray that I will “be worthy of the promises of Christ.”

You should know that everyone struggles, and that God wants us to triumph over our struggle and will help us to do so. I will include you in my prayers and ask the Holy Spirit to bestow upon you the peace of God.
 
traillius said:
No matter what I do to try and change my situation, whether the attempt fails or succeeds, I still always seem like nothing creates a spark in me to feel passionate. I don’t ever feel the difference. I am in marriage counseling, etc… I just feel like if I don’t make some change, I will remain stuck until I die. I don’t want to make negative changes. I just want something to feel different and better. I don’t know if marriage, caregiving, my job, or something else is the major problem. I wish I could explain more effectively. Sorry for sounding so (pathetic??). Please pray for me. I am praying but haven’t had a recognizable answer yet.
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Have you always been like this or is it a recent thing?
 
Praying to the Holy Spirit to give you guidance, direction, strength, fortitude & wisdom in your time of need.
 
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