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Red, if you take a look at the numerous threads here on the CAFs regarding divorce and re-marriage, you will find that there are a multitude of Christians who use Scripture–the very same Bible you and I use–to declare that God allows divorce and re-marriage. Most will argue that God doesn’t really like it, but that He tolerates it.I agree with all of this. Using your example about weddings, a person who doesn’t care at all about Christianity would see nothing wrong with what you describe, but a person who has bothered to learn what the Bible and church tradition have to say about it sees that it is unacceptable. Even if that person had been taught in a church all of his or her life that second marriages were perfectly acceptable, that man or woman could challenge and overcome such erroneous teaching if he or she was willing to take personal responsibility to find out whether their church’s teachings were correct.
Thus, to say that all we have to do is learn what the Bible and church tradition (their individual churches I presume you to mean) says and we’ll come to a common truth has not borne out in reality.
I feel as you think I’m arguing that I shouldn’t be bound by any teaching that inconveniences me or seems hard to accept at first glance. This isn’t my position at all.
Again, all I challenge you (and all of use) to do is to contemplate whether we’re in a church of our own beliefs or a church that has conformed itself to Christ’s revelation. And if we’re in a church that agrees with everything we believe, then we’ve most likely created a church in our own image.
This is, in fact, what you have done though, Red, if you believe that, say, the Gospel of Mark is inspired. Mark is telling you something and you believe it based on his testimony, right?My position is that I should not be told that I must believe certain teachings even if I am not able to reach the conclusion that they are correct or truly apostolic. I don’t want another human being to tell me "You have come to believe that this is false, but I say that it is true.
I hope you are not under the misapprehension that this is part of the Catholic Church’s teaching!Any remaining reasons you have for believing that it is false are overruled by the simple fact that I’m the one saying it’s true."
:tiphat:I’m going to stop making new posts about this now, read what people say in response, and drop the matter. I can promise that I’m going to do a lot of thinking, praying and studying about some of the excellent points that have brought up. I do enjoy being free to reach my own conclusions, learn new things that challenge those conclusions, and modify my beliefs accordingly.
My suggestion is to start with Fides et Ratio, in the link that I provided above.