Not Sure What To Do? (Advice?)

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Have received some good advice and will also raise it with a priest.
 
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Change your intention to a good intention and continue to have good intentions. If the questions aren’t bad in themselves then publish them.
 
Since you have provided neither the questions which now seem to bother you, nor the answers (which may be the source of you questioning your questions), it is impossible to answer with any specificity. And the net is “I hav a problem”.

Okay, but what is the problem?

If you think it is a moral one, take it up with your confessor (not unknown individuals on the internet).

I am not asking you to reveal what your consternation is about, as I suspect your indirectness is due to being uncomfortable with either the questions or the answers - or both.

It might be best if you take it up in person with someone you can speak plainly to. Thus your confessor.
 
I was kind of thinking similar. It probably wouldn’t be great of me to redo some questions and then ask them to answer again. I feel like that might annoy them plus waste their time, when essentially their initial responses were perfectly fine. Plus it might be odd or even upsetting if I remove some of their answers altogether. In regards to the original questions themselves, there was never any intent to be lustful with them. Whether or not there was something subconsciously attained through them, I can’t definitively say. But it might have just been an attraction. When I did realise there was something possibly there, I made sure of my intent. If anything, it was nothing, a temptation, something I was unaware I was doing, and/or something that possibly wasn’t yet grave. I think I might just publish their answers
 
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Here is my question, why are you interviewing tap dancing women, and where are you going to publish?
 
What on earth does that mean. Can you translate for people (like me) who don’t use and never will use Instagram?

What ‘nice benefit’ to do with Instagram will be done for tap dancing women, by you interviewing them. Is this something they get paid for?
 
People like to be recognised. They want to talk about something they enjoy and I want to say something nice about them.
 
I think you should really examine, perhaps with a priest, why you are wanting to say nice things about tap dancing women on instagram.
My advice is to stop this project until you have thoroughly examined this with your priest.
Being Catholic, we should not seek pride and recognition. We should be humble and do all our work for the purity of doing God’s will. That is a life long goal for many 🙂
 
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I’m not saying I want to be recognised. Far from it. I want to recognise them and do something that will make them happy, compliment them
 
I understand that. Do you tap dance, anyone in your family, close friends? Those are questions for you alone in examining your motives for gaining dancers recognition. What is your motive, examine this with your Priest.

If you feel called to some sort of advocacy, why not pray on it and seek some guidance on effective ways to engage in advocacy and choosing causes to advocate for.
 
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