Openness to Life, Faith, and God's Plan

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People may think that the Church teaching of openness to life, marriage, and contraception aren’t critically important.

My father was 49 and my mother was about 40 when I was born. As an adult I spoke with my dad (since passed away) and he told me that he obeyed Church teaching and did not practice artifical contraception.

I realize that many literally owe their lives to this loving Church teaching. I could shed a tear when I think about God’s love for us. That is what God seeks, not to condemn us but to see His loving plan. Any of you who may not understand this teaching, I urge you to obey God’s plan of love and have faith in Him. Trust God and do not try to control life artifically because only God is the author of life. It’s amazing how openness to life affects other areas and attitudes of life and makes you a powerful creative person. It’s like “magic”. People talk about overpopulation. If we could get our moral loves straightened out we could certainly manage the earth’s resources creatively. Being open to life also avoids abortion because we have a different attitude towards pregnancy. This is not to mention that artifical contraception can cause abortions. It’s not a shortage of resources on this planet - it’s a shortage of moral creative thinking that puts artificial limits on human progress and potential. Jesus said “do not be afraid.” I think this also includes having children.

I am grateful to my parents for having me, and I am happy that they followed Church teaching! :love:

Trust God, trust His Church, trust! The Church would not lead you the wrong way - the world will lead you the wrong way. “I am the way the truth and the life.” Trust!
 
Thanks for sharing your story. It is a powerful testimony. God bless you and your family! 🙂
 
We are adopting again and we are older than the origniator of this thread’s parents.

Something about being a faithful Catholic makes one really open to a new life. I’'m not just talking about the rules, but sincerely, we are working to support a culture of life and being open to adopt again is a big part of it.

Mamamull
 
My wife and I had been married 18 years. I was Catholic, she was not, although she respected the Church.

We had a 10-year-old, a 7-year-old, and both turned 40. And we found out we were going to be parents again.

The OB who delivered our first 2 wasn’t in OB practise any more. My wife went to a GYN she had seen in the past. The first medical advice she got on the situation was “how easily we can make this problem go away.” She was shattered.

Never having considered abortion, she wanted to know what to make of the advice. She knew the teaching of the (then my) Church, but wasn’t herself a member. (She knew of the Lord, but had not come to know him.) I counselled her to make a positive decision (I knew she was no murderess), and she chose life.

Our youngest just turned 18. In June, she graduated St. Thomas More Collegiate with gold medals in academics (1st place), biology and religion, 3 scholarships, and the “Knight of the Year” award. The Easter Vigil before the grad, my wife had been received into the Church.

When people at her grad congratulated me as “the Dad,” I freely confessed that many times in the 5 years she’'d been in the school, I just stood back and looked on in wonder. Not just wonder at her and her accomplishments, but at what God had planned when we got that very surprising news 18 years earlier.

One nice little irony. As “Knight of the Year” (first girl to get it in the recently coed school), her name went on the trophy. Also on the trophy is the name of our present family doctor.

Let no one doubt that God is QUITE a planner!

Blessings,

Gerry
 
Beautiful story!!! So inspiring!!! Our daughter is also 18. Your daughter sounds like a wonderful person!
 
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Greg_McPherran:
Beautiful story!!! So inspiring!!! Our daughter is also 18. Your daughter sounds like a wonderful person!
She is indeed.

And as I geneticist, I can tell you that there’s more to that than genetics. 😃

Blessings,

Gerry
 
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Mamamull:
We are adopting again and we are older than the origniator of this thread’s parents.

Something about being a faithful Catholic makes one really open to a new life. I’'m not just talking about the rules, but sincerely, we are working to support a culture of life and being open to adopt again is a big part of it.

Mamamull
Wonderful to hear! I support and encourage you.
 
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