Have not experienced that custom in my own particular church (Byzantine-Ruthenian), but I’ve heard of this and believe it is of relatively recent origin.
There is a specific prayer of absolution included in the Byzantine funeral rite.
We tend to pray for the deceased at traditional intervals as a means of helping the souls along their journey …
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