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Frank_Roman
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I need your help!
I am almost certain that God is calling me to be a priest, and possibly a Franciscan.
I told my Dad (who is Jewish) on Oct. 4. He responded much better than I expected. He did’t understand the desire, he told me about the greatest blessings in his life (myself and my sister) and that he didn’t want me to miss out on that, but he would always love and support me. He asked if he could talk to mom (who is Catholic) about it, or did I want to talk to her first. I chose to talk to her myself.
She didn’t respond well. In addition to crying, her response is that I am too young to be considering such a life long commitment. I chose bad timing (grandparents came over to visit right after I told her) and over the past weeks we haven’t sat down and spoken about it. There have been occasional veiled references in conversation that no one else got, but I did. She is certainly not encouraging me.
My game plan had been to go to a Catholic College. (im in 12th grade) Perhaps the pre-theo program at Franciscan University. My parents would probably prefer I stay away from Catholic school all together.
What should I do now? What can I say to my mom? Any moms out there, I ask for your help especially.
I am almost certain that God is calling me to be a priest, and possibly a Franciscan.
I told my Dad (who is Jewish) on Oct. 4. He responded much better than I expected. He did’t understand the desire, he told me about the greatest blessings in his life (myself and my sister) and that he didn’t want me to miss out on that, but he would always love and support me. He asked if he could talk to mom (who is Catholic) about it, or did I want to talk to her first. I chose to talk to her myself.
She didn’t respond well. In addition to crying, her response is that I am too young to be considering such a life long commitment. I chose bad timing (grandparents came over to visit right after I told her) and over the past weeks we haven’t sat down and spoken about it. There have been occasional veiled references in conversation that no one else got, but I did. She is certainly not encouraging me.
My game plan had been to go to a Catholic College. (im in 12th grade) Perhaps the pre-theo program at Franciscan University. My parents would probably prefer I stay away from Catholic school all together.
What should I do now? What can I say to my mom? Any moms out there, I ask for your help especially.