Parents reaction to becoming catholic

[GunnerT]

Hi, I’ll try to be brief. I’ve dated a traditional catholic girl for 4 years and want to marry her. I have no religious affiliations and would be willing to convert. However, my parents are terrified that this would drive a wedge between me and them (they have no religion), and make me think of them as lesser. And obvious issues that arise with future children. My parents might resent my girlfriend for this, and I think she feels this and is really upset

I know I love this girl, and want to marry her. Just wondering if there’s any advice for how to go about things in the future to make things easier

 

[Xanthippe_Voorhees]

It seems like the lack of religion is almost it’s own religion to your parents.

You should probably be well versed in the Catholic faith and then also talk over things with your parents.

Once you are married you have to know that your parents feelings no longer matter. PERIOD.

 

[crenfro]

Hello.

Talk to a good and holy priest. Also, you may want to contact an apologist on this site.

I’m all for you converting! And who knows, your parents may eventually see the beauty of the Catholic Faith. You sound like a lovely person.

You also sound like you have a big adventure waiting for you.

You are in my prayers. Please pray for me.