Hey everyone!
Is there a real difference between these two? Can you have a Patron Saint and a Confirmation Saint? Or are they one and the same? For those of you who chose a Patron Saint after Confirmation (and assuming they’re different), why did you pick one? Obviously the more Saints the merrier, but I am curious.
Your confirmation saint is the saint whose name you received from the Bishop at the time he confirmed you. It is, therefore, part of your name and part of your identity. Hopefully you chose well! I never use my confirmation name but my confirmation patron saint’s name is very much my own, even if never used, and there is a profound affinity between he and I across all these years. I celebrate his feast day in a special way…and so forth.
I remember spending many months in discernment. Oddly enough, it is so long ago now, however, I can’t tell you who the other saints were that I was considering.
On the other hand, I place different aspects of my life under the patronage of a saint. The patroness of my priesthood for example is, actually, a female saint who had a great love for priests. I don’t have…nor would I assume…her name as is the case with my confirmation patron.
Yes, you could have more than one personal patron saint…and that is at your choice. The opportunities to formally receive the name of a saint, however, are relatively limited…baptism, confirmation, and religious life – although many third orders secular (and some monasteries with regard to their secular oblates) will allow the option of adopting the name of a saint or blessed, based on the model that Religious do this. The use of the name, however, is usually discreet and limited.