People in our paths?

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I guess my question is why does God put people in our paths. So I’ve been friends with “Carlos” since my freshman year. I never though of him other that a friend until we left high school. I became a close friend of Carlos ending senior year and after. After we graduated I noticing that I liked him in more than a friend type of way. After a couple weeks I got courage to tell him that I liked him because I didn’t feel right to lie to him. He seen our relationship as a friendship and although I seen it like a friendship also I had hope it would be something else. So I fessed up and told him I liked him and he told me he didn’t. Which I was okay with and soon after we stopped talking and haven’t talked since, so I guess we are no longer friends. Also its been months since that and I can’t seem to get him off my mind. I keep feeling like I messed up big time and I just don’t feel good and I miss him. So my question is what was his intention in my journey and I know that that question is only for god. But I don’t know I guess I just need some type of advice.
 
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Welcome to CAF Ira 🙋 That’s a good question. Why does God bring people into our lives? I think a different category will give you more answers than here. Like moral which is in Apologetics, not sure. You might try to post it there and see in case you do not get enough ideas.
We have free will and God loves you. Divine Providence… Such a mystery. Divine Providence
 
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Welcome to CAF, Ira2019! Lol! And welcome to the world of adulthood—not always an easy place to be. Treat this experience as a learning experience. Get to know someone much better, over a longer period of time, before saying anything, and exercise caution when you do.

You might volunteer in helping to build houses with Habitat for Humanity here in the states, or a similar worthwhile project, whereby you’d learn useful skills and teamwork, as well as have the opportunity to meet more people. You’d have a unique new subject of conversation, an attribute on your job resume, an ever-widening circle of friends, and your free time would be so occupied with your volunteering project that you’d have very little time left for fretting about a disappeared friendship.

When one door cannot be opened, find other doors. Best wishes to you!
 
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