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"I’m also a little unsettled that she insisted on the poverty of her institutions so fiercely. It makes sense for nuns to live in poverty, but it seems hypocritical and sanctimonious when the poverty of the nuns limits the comfort offered to the sick and dying (as it most certainly did).

Mother Teresa’s view of poverty is also, in my opinion, profoundly upsetting. (The two anecdotes I’m sharing here seem pretty well corroborated; I’ve supplied a link that links to other places.) There’s her famous quotation: "“There is something beautiful in seeing the poor accept their lot, to suffer it like Christ’s Passion. The world gains much from their suffering.” (One has to wonder, if this is true, why would anyone attempt to alleviate the suffering of the poor? If the suffering of the poor is valuable to the world, don’t we have an obligation to increase it?) She presented herself as someone devoted to alleviating the suffering of the masses, yet she found their suffering beautiful and valuable.
There’s also this anecdote, in which she addresses a suffering woman. “You know, this terrible pain is only the kiss of Jesus — a sign that you have come so close to Jesus on the cross that he can kiss you.” (one wonders: in paradise, where all tears will be wiped away, will Jesus no longer kiss us?)
It is, once again, worth remarking upon that Teresa had the resources/influence to alleviate a tremendous amount of suffering, and opted not to (it’s undeniable that she could have done much more than operate soup kitchens and baptize the dying). Trained medical personnel could have been hired; analgesics could have been purchased. And yet, for whatever reason, these measures were not taken. And then Teresa had the gall to deliver such drivel to her suffering patients.
I can understand a Saint’s acceptance of suffering. However, to look at the suffering of the collective poor as a good, to naively think that the poor have the same outlook on suffering as Catholic saints, seems terribly twisted.
Indeed, this whole way of viewing the suffering of the masses seems sick. It’s this aspect of her mission that strikes me as being evil. It seems palpably sadistic to be able to look at the “poor accepting their lot” and say that their suffering is beautiful and valuable (imagine trying to explain this to a homeless person). (Here’s a link that appears to corroborate the anecdotes just discussed)

Mother Theresa’s Masochism: Does Religion Demand Suffering …
www.alternet.org

I suppose what really gets me about Teresa’s whole mission is that it was devoted to gathering up the most helpless people of Calcutta and giving them a place to die. Essentially, it was a soul-catching device, meant to funnel people into heaven. Now, I suppose if one subscribes to Christian doctrines of salvation, this is a “good” institution. However, there’s something deeply unsettling about choosing the most hopeless and helpless people as the main target for proselytizing. People who have nowhere else to turn make strikingly easy targets for enterprises like this. I guess this could be construed as charity/compassion. Nevertheless, the fact that they insisted on baptizing the dying seems to evince a strange sort of utilitarianism toward human life: namely, that a human being is simply a soul that needs to be coaxed, coerced, and possibly connived into heaven. (One wonders, if given the option to cure or baptize a dying patient, what Teresa would have done. She did, after all, have the resources to cure many of them). Her actions seem to evince the belief that, given the choice, it’s better to die and go to heaven than to be cured of an illness. Even if we accept Christian soteriology (a generous concession, you must admit), this seems twisted. However, if we admit that Christian soteriology remains a tendentious proposition, Teresa’s treatment of the dying immediately seems many times more twisted and irresponsible. It’s actually quite fanatical. Should such a person really be allowed to provide (or withhold) care from dying non-christians?

It’s also a bit unsettling that Teresa’s mission has not really done anything to alleviate the terrible poverty in the slums of Calcutta (despite having the resources to do meaningful work). As reported in the article from Forbes I shared previously, their charitable activity is negligible. Of course, this wasn’t really the role of her institution, as you’ve conceded. However, it draws attention to the fact that extreme poverty and suffering are conducive to Teresa’s mission: without a large population of sick and dying, her main clientele essentially vanishes. Just seems like her mission has a symbiotic relationship to poverty; business is booming when poverty is rampant. The alleviation of poverty means fewer souls to sent to heaven. Seems like a conflict of interest, no?

All right, maybe you disagree with all of this, or see it as a warped view of Teresa’s mission. So, I suppose my challenge to you (and it should be trivially easy) is to find tangible evidence of the good that Mother Teresa’s mission has done. What I’m asking is for you to show that she did more than operate an international soup-kitchen. It seems evident that she did much to ease the passing of the terminally ill. However, can sustained relief efforts be attributed to her? Has her work served to change the status quo in impoverished communities? Have the massive resources allocated to her been utilized effectively? And of what value is the sentiment generated by her work, if poverty continues to run rampant in the communities she purportedly helped?"
 
All right, maybe you disagree with all of this, or see it as a warped view of Teresa’s mission. So, I suppose my challenge to you (and it should be trivially easy) is to find tangible evidence of the good that Mother Teresa’s mission has done. What I’m asking is for you to show that she did more than operate an international soup-kitchen. It seems evident that she did much to ease the passing of the terminally ill. However, can sustained relief efforts be attributed to her? Has her work served to change the status quo in impoverished communities? Have the massive resources allocated to her been utilized effectively? And of what value is the sentiment generated by her work, if poverty continues to run rampant in the communities she purportedly helped?"
:whistle: Little ax to grind there, dearie? My goodness…

I have a friend who works in a homeless shelter in downtown Denver. That shelter has been operating for over 20 years… yet there are still homeless men and women in downtown Denver! :eek: So has their work been pointless? Are they just a sham? Is my friend’s work a lie? Are he and all the other workers there thieves who use the continued homelessness crisis to line their pockets? Is their very existence a “conflict of interest” in ending the homelessness problem? I mean, if homelessness ends, my friend and his colleagues will be out of a job! The scoundrels!

And what’s wrong with an international soup kitchen! :mad: While you sit there saying that SHE should have found the cure for the hatred and apathy that have plagued human hearts for millennia, SHE took care of the immediate needs of those who are suffering! By your reasoning, she should have ignored the dying, the starving, the orphans – so she could join a think-tank or a UN committee or some other bureaucracy that talks and talks while people die.

As for her care of the dying… You may not agree with what she did, but consider this: People were literally dying in the street. No one else was doing ANYTHING to alleviate their suffering! And apparently you are unaware that the help and food and medical help her sisters gave the “dying” allowed some to recover!

It’s very easy to sit at our computers and cast aspersions on someone saying, “SHE didn’t do EVERYTHING that needed to be done! SHE didn’t end hatred! SHE didn’t put an end to apathy! SHE didn’t open hospitals! SHE didn’t hire physicians!” etc…

But have you or I done ANYTHING to help the dying in our neighborhoods? Have you or I fed the starving, comforted the dying, parented the orphan, rescued the disabled? Have you or I come up with a solution to end homelessness? To end poverty? To end starvation? To put a permanent end to the greed, hatred, apathy, and complacency that keep these problems a permanent part of human existence?

Instead of dwelling on what SHE should have done, on what SHE did wrong, maybe it’s time to turn off the computer and get to work, showing the world how it can be done!

Lead the way, my friend, and I’ll be right beside you putting a final and lasting end to poverty 👍 Of course, first we’ll have to stop spending all our energy condemning the life work of others… just saying…

God bless you!
 
:whistle: Little ax to grind there, dearie? My goodness…

I have a friend who works in a homeless shelter in downtown Denver. That shelter has been operating for over 20 years… yet there are still homeless men and women in downtown Denver! :eek: So has their work been pointless? Are they just a sham? Is my friend’s work a lie? Are he and all the other workers there thieves who use the continued homelessness crisis to line their pockets? Is their very existence a “conflict of interest” in ending the homelessness problem? I mean, if homelessness ends, my friend and his colleagues will be out of a job! The scoundrels!

And what’s wrong with an international soup kitchen! :mad: While you sit there saying that SHE should have found the cure for the hatred and apathy that have plagued human hearts for millennia, SHE took care of the immediate needs of those who are suffering! By your reasoning, she should have ignored the dying, the starving, the orphans – so she could join a think-tank or a UN committee or some other bureaucracy that talks and talks while people die.

As for her care of the dying… You may not agree with what she did, but consider this: People were literally dying in the street. No one else was doing ANYTHING to alleviate their suffering! And apparently you are unaware that the help and food and medical help her sisters gave the “dying” allowed some to recover!

It’s very easy to sit at our computers and cast aspersions on someone saying, “SHE didn’t do EVERYTHING that needed to be done! SHE didn’t end hatred! SHE didn’t put an end to apathy! SHE didn’t open hospitals! SHE didn’t hire physicians!” etc…

But have you or I done ANYTHING to help the dying in our neighborhoods? Have you or I fed the starving, comforted the dying, parented the orphan, rescued the disabled? Have you or I come up with a solution to end homelessness? To end poverty? To end starvation? To put a permanent end to the greed, hatred, apathy, and complacency that keep these problems a permanent part of human existence?

Instead of dwelling on what SHE should have done, on what SHE did wrong, maybe it’s time to turn off the computer and get to work, showing the world how it can be done!

Lead the way, my friend, and I’ll be right beside you putting a final and lasting end to poverty 👍 Of course, first we’ll have to stop spending all our energy condemning the life work of others… just saying…

God bless you!
Wow! Well said! 👍

I couldn’t agree with you more in everything you said.
 
I don’t know what you’ve been reading or how you read it but I don’t think we’re talking about the same mother teresa here. I’ve read about this saintly woman for years and was always astounded by everything she wrote and found it all to be so simple yet so profound and true. Mother Teresa did more work to alleviate poverty and suffering not only in Calcutta but the whole world over than anyone else I’ve ever read of!!! She made her sisters live in strict poverty so as to make them rely on Divine Providence, and contrary to what you said, this poverty did not hinder their operations to the poor! Rather, anything they were given went straight TO the poor. Mother and her order only lived off of what was essential to survive, just like Christ calls us to do. Moreover, her homes for the dying were not “funnels to heaven”. She NEVER made anyone get baptized in the Christian faith, which if you’ve read anything she has written, she says constantly. If anyone converted it was because they saw her charity and Christ-like example. I believe the numbers were that over 85% of the people who died in her homes never converted but died as Hindus and Muslims. Furthermore, you must grossly misunderstand the situation of these homes for the dying. Nothing more could be done for these people. She DID do whatever she could, ie, bathe and clothe them and give them food and drink. But as the poster above said, most them were on the verge of death when the sisters found them. These homes were to give people who were impoverished and abandoned a chance to die with dignity and like real humans, not rotting in some gutter in the streets forgotten by everyone. You need to read about mother Teresa more from either different books or a different point of view. She was a VERY holy woman and I feel worthless compared to how much this small little nun from Eastern Europe did to bring about Christ’s kingdom in the world and spread the Gospel. My goodness, she was practically a saint here on earth!
 
To the OP, one of the biggest lessons learned in life is every time you point your finger at someone else you are pointing three fingers back at yourself. Mother Teresa was a role model the way she showed with her actions of helping the sick, the needy, the disabled and the dying.

I don’t know about you, OP, but there’s a whole lot of people out there that would have thoughts like: ‘Eeeyuk, I’m not gonna to help those people, they’re dying and sick, with the diseases they have, I’ll probably catch it then I’ll be just like them. Why should I put my life at risk?’ or ’ No, better just stay out of there, stay away from those people. They’re gonna die anyway, let ‘em be’. But Mother Teresa had a very deep devotion to God the Father and to God the Son, Jesus, her heart burned with a fiery love for God so she believed with every fiber of her being that the sick, the disabled, the needy, the orphans and the dying were God’s people too and if she risked her life to care for them she believed God would take care of her and He did.

I will tell you one thing, I could not do a better job at trying to end poverty and homelessness than Mother Teresa did. So Thank God for her, that I knew who she was and I pray to Bl. Mother Teresa.
 
I don’t know what you’ve been reading or how you read it but I don’t think we’re talking about the same mother teresa here. I’ve read about this saintly woman for years and was always astounded by everything she wrote and found it all to be so simple yet so profound and true. Mother Teresa did more work to alleviate poverty and suffering not only in Calcutta but the whole world over than anyone else I’ve ever read of!!! She made her sisters live in strict poverty so as to make the**m rely on Divine Providence, and contrary to what you said, this poverty did not hinder their operations to the poor! Rather, anything they were given went straight TO the poor. Mother and her order only lived off of what was essential to survive, just like Christ calls us to do. Moreover, her homes for the dying were not “funnels to heaven”. She NEVER made anyone get baptized in the Christian faith, which if you’ve read anything she has written, she says constantly. If anyone converted it was because they saw her charity and Christ-like example. I believe the numbers were that over 85% of the people who died in her homes never converted but died as Hindus and Muslims. Furthermore, you must grossly misunderstand the situation of these homes for the dying. Nothing more could be done for these people. She DID do whatever she could, ie, bathe and clothe them and give them food and drink. But as the poster above said, most them were on the verge of death when the sisters found them. These homes were to give people who were impoverished and abandoned a chance to die with dignity and like real humans, not rotting in some gutter in the streets forgotten by everyone. You need to read about mother Teresa more from either different books or a different point of view. She was a VERY holy woman and I feel worthless compared to how much this small little nun from Eastern Europe did to bring about Christ’s kingdom in the world and spread the Gospel. My goodness, she was practically a saint here on earth!
Blessed Mother Teresa also went through twenty years of THE DARK NIGHT of the soul, where she felt she could no longer feel or hear God, yet she kept on fighting the good battle against death and extreme poverty. We are way past the moment when this very holy woman should have been cannonized. Hopefully soon, very soon.
 
So, I suppose my challenge to you (and it should be trivially easy) is to find tangible evidence of the good that Mother Teresa’s mission has done. What I’m asking is for you to show that she did more than operate an international soup-kitchen.
I would ask you: have you operated an international soup kitchen? If not, why not? Have any of your friends done so? What have you personally done to alleviate the suffering of the poor or dying? Have you done more than Mother Teresa? If not, why not?

Please answer your own question by stepping up and showing the world how lacking Mother Teresa was by doing it ten times better and serving ten times more people. If you wish to condemn Mother Teresa, this is the only way it can be done.
It seems evident that she did much to ease the passing of the terminally ill. However, can sustained relief efforts be attributed to her? Has her work served to change the status quo in impoverished communities? Have the massive resources allocated to her been utilized effectively? And of what value is the sentiment generated by her work, if poverty continues to run rampant in the communities she purportedly helped?"
As per the above: step up and show the world how to do what you are demanding of Mother Teresa. If her caring for the poor and dying was ‘evil,’ then please show the world by example how to care for the poor and dying in a good way.
 
I bet that whatever was done for any single person mattered a great deal to that person. It doesn’t matter if she didn’t change poverty in India or elsewhere. That is too big a problem for one person or one group to change.
 
I bet that whatever was done for any single person mattered a great deal to that person. It doesn’t matter if she didn’t change poverty in India or elsewhere. That is too big a problem for one person or one group to change.
Agreed. I was trying to keep my post relatively short, but I thought of the story of the man on a beach with thousands of star fish washed up, being told all his efforts to throw starfish back in don’t make a drop in the bucket.

He threw another one in and said, “To THAT one, I just made all the difference in the world.”

Unless there’s something I don’t know, Mother Teresa’s nuns and organization continue to help people many years after her death. Her lifetime has borne far more fruits than most of us will ever show. We ought to be condemning ourselves, not her. If those who think like the OP would have spent their time taking the poor and dying in off the streets like Mother Teresa, instead of taking the time to condemn her, her efforts would have multiplied even more.
 
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