Absolutely… I’m keeping your friend in my prayers. I’m praying that he “hits bottom” soon.
Because he suffers from alcoholism… as evidenced by the facts that you just told to us… his alcoholism is impacting those around him, like you and your friends.
So I’m also praying for you and anybody at all who knows your friend, too.
You’ve probably heard about Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)
aa.org/
The Big Book is online here:
recovery.org/aa/bigbook/ww/
but maybe you haven’t heard about AlAnon or Alateen for anybody at all who knows someone who suffers from alcoholism?
AlAnon sure helped me when I had a boyfriend who as wonderful as he is, also suffered from alcoholism… and therefore was impacting me, as well.
You don’t even need to be in the same town as that person to go to those meetings – which are ALWAYS free.
Are you troubled by someone else’s drinking? Ask yourself these questions for whether AlAnon or Alateen is for you:
dallasal-anon.org/20_questions.htm
Alcoholism is a family disease because ONE person’s alocholism affects everyone else the family… did you grow up with a problem drinker? Ask yourself these questions for whether AlAnon or Alateen may help:
dallasal-anon.org/alcoholism_is_a_family_disease.htm
You may call the Dallas Al-Anon Information Service 24 hours a day, 7 days a week at (214) 363-0461.
To help them, you have to help yourself first. Call An-Anon/Alateen at:
1-888-4AL-ANON (1-888-425-2666)
www.al-anon.alateen.org
al-anon.org/
Additionally, you can call Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. at 888-4AL-ANON (888-425-2666), Monday through Friday, 8 am to 6 pm ET for meeting information.
How to locate a meeting for YOU:
al-anon.org/meetings/meeting.html
I did a google search for you and came up with these sites for AlAnon in Texas.
dallasal-anon.org/
oneexdrunk.topcities.com/
alcoholicsanonymous.9f.com/
As “they” say… take what you need and leave the rest.
I’m praying for your friend… and for you, too.