Please, pray for my confession. Last time I was in 2012 dec.
I don’t know, what happened with my heart and brain. I can’t prepare for it. I lost understanding.
I used to do some lengthy confessions. Then, I learned I didn’t need to do all that.
Now, I go through an “examination of conscience”.
usccb.org/prayer-and-worship/sacraments/penance/examinations-of-conscience.cfm
Then, realize, I think it’s even okay…1st commandment…1 time…10 times…100 times…1,000 times. If you’re unsure the number, round off.
a dozen times…dozens of times…
Also, there are a lot of times euphemisms for the sins. If one feels uncomfortable confessing, say, masturbation, a softer way would be to say, …self gratification, say.
I used to get into detail. Now, I see detail normally isn’t necessary. If a priest wants more information, he’ll ask.
Write it down in list form so you don’t forget anything.
I’ve had 2 priests compliment me on my confessions…one in the US, one in Mexico!
Well, the priest in the US said I was very thorough, or something to that effect, since I did a general confession. He said it was a very good confession. I covered lots of years, similar to yourself.
To continue, if it’s one of the vices…I’ll say the name of the vice…estimate the number of times.
I might just add a circumstance which would make the sin more serious or less, but that’s about it.
Oh, one more thing. I know it’s hard to get the courage to go after so long, but congratulations on doing this! :clapping:
Well, some priests seem to like the challenge of confession with people who have a great need for the sacrament.
Fulton Sheen said, “Hearing nuns’ confessions is like being stoned to death with popcorn.”
Finally, I just wanted to say I heard of one case, think on Catholic Radio, of a priest who actually **LOVED **to be the confessor for someone who had, say, not confessed in 30 years! He referred to those people as “the big fish”!
