Pleasure boundaries

[Shae]

What are the pleasure boundaries between husband and wife?
Can they perform oral sex, as long as these lead to lovemaking?
To spice the relationship between the two, can they use chololate sauce, massage so on, or are there hard rules in place to abide to.

I’d prefer fact to opinion please.

shae

 

[StCsDavid]

The key is that the marital act must be open to the gift of creation. If venturing a bit on the spicy side gets you into a position to make that happen…go for it. Just remember, he needs to cross the finish line with his boys heading in the right direction. I talk a little in code here as we do have youngsters who venture into these forums.

 

[CatholicCid]

Sorry as this is immature… But I had to just see what this topic was about when I saw “Can they use chocolate sauce…” in the little preview… But that definately gave me a good laugh… Thanks

 

[JKirkLVNV]

StCsDavid:

Just remember, he needs to cross the finish line with his boys heading in the right direction.

Allow me to congratulate you: You’ve faithfully articulated Catholic Truth…not precisely the way the Holy Father might have articulated it, mind you, but no one can mistake the meaning.

 

[Thomas_More_1]

It is also extremely important that the marriage act brings husband and wife into closer union, in love.

No practices that are demeaning, or objectifying, should be used, even if they fulfill the “technical requirements” of the possibility of procreation.

I’m not going to make a list .