I honestly believe that if we don’t experience some victimization, some level of persecution, some struggle, sorrow, and conflict due to our inability to fit into this world and align with its values, then we’re possibly more friendly with the world than with God, especially early in our walk.
And humility, as others have said, is central. The world is controlled and swayed by it’s own pride, enamored with “winners”. But our winner is an emaciated, humiliated, tortured God on a cross.