I think you are unaware of what the lyrics in these songs are. Vastly different than anything y’all listened to when you were young
I know what kind of words you’re talking about. We live in a city where there is a shooting every day, and we’re on track to set a record for annual murders (it figures–it’s just one more 2020 thing).
I don’t think that anyone should spend a great deal of their time immersed in violence, either in music, movies, television, books, or anything else. Unless someone has been called to a profession that involves violence (e.g., military, police, detective, historian, researcher into human behavior, priest, etc.) I don’t think we should spend a lot of time and energy on violence.
There are plenty of wholesome outlets for aggressive energy–e.g., sports.
When our daughters were quite young, they got caught up in a television show called “Harmony Ranch.” It was created by and starred a delightful, extremely-talented group of musicians called “Riders in the Sky”–dedicated to doing the music of the cowboys (e.g.,
Tumblin’ Tumbleweed).
We have seen this group in person many times and so have our daughters, and they do a wonderful show–go see them if you at all like cowboy culture and music.
They wrote the music for Toy Story II, and won a Grammy for it.
HOWEVER–their show had a strange effect on our daughters–it made them so hyper and aggressive–that we stopped them from watching it. Today, there’s a joke in our family “If the movie makes you too hyper, it gets taken away.”
Now that they’re older, we all laugh about it, but to this day, we all understand why that show just wasn’t appropriate for our daughters at that time in their lives. They didn’t have the ability to correctly process it.
So yes, I’m on your side in this.
But I known that many people found the music of these contemporary composers like Bartok disturbing.