Possible move to UT (question about Mormons)

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Hi everyone! I’m considering a move to Salt Lake City UT (area). Does anyone have any experiences they’d like to share about living there? I don’t want my family and I to feel like outcasts. Am I worrying over nothing?

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Meg
 
I’ve never lived there, but we go there every year to ski. Compared to California, I find SLC refreshing - people say Merry Christmas instead of the dreaded Happy Holidays, you see a lot of large families out and about, even Walmart is empty on Sundays as the Lord’s day is observed, overall it feels more Christian there than here. This is my experience as an outsider anyway. The only problem is the lack of Latin Mass there. That said, I like their Catholic cathedral downtown. It’s where we go when we there. Also, My Catholic coworker lives there and says they are never bothered by the Mormons. As far as whether you’ll be able to make Mormon friends, that I couldn’t tell you. I think overall though it’s better to live among people who follow SOME kind of religion than none at all, as is the case in California.
 
Hi everyone! I’m considering a move to Salt Lake City UT (area). Does anyone have any experiences they’d like to share about living there? I don’t want my family and I to feel like outcasts. Am I worrying over nothing?

Anyone?

Meg
I don’t know personally, but I believe that SLC is much more pleasant for a non-Mormon than other areas of UT with a much more uniformly Mormon population.
 
Mormons now comprise less than 50% of Utah’s population. There’s still a strong Mormon culture but it’s getting more diverse. I like it there and was even considering relocating to Cache Valley at one time. You should get along just fine.
 
Utah is a great place to live. I have many friends and associates who are Mormon, and most are respectful towards other faiths.

So much to do and see year round. It’s a great place to raise a family as well.
 
I don’t know personally, but I believe that SLC is much more pleasant for a non-Mormon than other areas of UT with a much more uniformly Mormon population.
I hear Salt Lake City is not bad and in fact there is a thriving Catholic population there. I have cautioned against moving to Provo Utah.
 
Probably the most family friendly area of the country. Slc (metro) is diverse other outlying suburbs and Towns tend to be more Mormon. I actually think that up to a point the Mormon influence can help the area. However there are still some areas of Utah or southern Idaho where one would be almost shunned from the public eye if one was not Mormon. Including some schools.
 
Hi everyone! I’m considering a move to Salt Lake City UT (area). Does anyone have any experiences they’d like to share about living there? I don’t want my family and I to feel like outcasts. Am I worrying over nothing?

Anyone?

Meg
If you’re moving to SLC proper, it’s actually only minority Mormon (25%?). Heck, they even have a lesbian mayor! If you’re moving to a different town, I can share info on that one.

Moving to SLC city is a lot like moving any other place: it’ll have a different culture than the place you are now. You can love it by looking at the positive side or hate it by looking at the negative. Utah in general has a great outdoor life, developed culture (theater, orchestra, etc), generally crime, good public transportation, etc.

Mormons overall are a friendly bunch, happy to be friends with Catholics (my best friend for 15 years was Catholic). There are also a number of Catholic schools you can attend. If you want, you can also get in touch with the large non-Mormon population for wine tasting events, and things like that.

One thing to be aware of is that Mormons are generally very involved with their church, typically devoting 3-8 hrs/week there. Hence they get to know their congregation members very well, and congregations are arranged geographically so your block will all be part of the same congregation. Circling back to the positive or negative attitude, you can either choose to resent this (feeling like they are leaving you out of some social club), or embrace that your neighbors are so devoted to God (even if there’s a disagreement on theology).
 
Do you have children? I would be far more concerned about their experience than yours as an adult.

While you may have a good experience, there are things to be careful about.

In a majority LDS community, most of the “neighborhood” activities may also be LDS church activities. It is not unknown for an official LDS church activity to be advertised as a neighborhood activity to get the non-LDS to attend and to proselytize them.

It is not unheard of for LDS parents to not let their children play with non-LDS children. This tends to be more of a Utah phenomenon and not a universal experience, however. Your children may experience of social pressure to convert to the LDS church and they may be targeted for conversion. Again, not a universal experience, but it does happen. As a parent, you will need to be aware this can happen and be ready to protect them or help them deal with this pressure and possible social rejection.

Don’t be surprised if some of your Mormon neighbors are very friendly and invite you to church activities but then suddenly disappear and seem not so friendly after you have made it clear that you will not be converting. Again, not a universal experience, but not uncommon.

From what I have heard from Catholics on this forum who live in Utah is that the parish community is strong. It almost has to be. I also suggest at least investigating sending your children to a Catholic school. I also recommend doing research on the ground and talk to your potential fellow parishioners about good places to live, good schools, etc.
 
Do you have children? I would be far more concerned about their experience than yours as an adult.

While you may have a good experience, there are things to be careful about.

In a majority LDS community, most of the “neighborhood” activities may also be LDS church activities. It is not unknown for an official LDS church activity to be advertised as a neighborhood activity to get the non-LDS to attend and to proselytize them.

It is not unheard of for LDS parents to not let their children play with non-LDS children. This tends to be more of a Utah phenomenon and not a universal experience, however. Your children may experience of social pressure to convert to the LDS church and they may be targeted for conversion. Again, not a universal experience, but it does happen. As a parent, you will need to be aware this can happen and be ready to protect them or help them deal with this pressure and possible social rejection.

Don’t be surprised if some of your Mormon neighbors are very friendly and invite you to church activities but then suddenly disappear and seem not so friendly after you have made it clear that you will not be converting. Again, not a universal experience, but not uncommon.

From what I have heard from Catholics on this forum who live in Utah is that the parish community is strong. It almost has to be. I also suggest at least investigating sending your children to a Catholic school. I also recommend doing research on the ground and talk to your potential fellow parishioners about good places to live, good schools, etc.
You bring up valid concerns. I do apologize for a brief summary of life in Utah. I’ve experienced awkward situations growing up and living in Utah in regards to me being Catholic. However, for the most part it’s a great place to live, and “most” people are respectful.
One has to understand that the Mormon Church is a very “mission oriented” institution. The state is primarily Mormon, and it should be expected that anyone living in Utah will be visited by Mormon missionaries from time to time. They are very kind, polite, and very respectful towards others.
With that said, one should be prepared to understand the basic differences between Catholicism and Mormonism. Mormonism rejects some of the most fundamental doctrines of Christianity and, it does make a direct claim against the Catholic Church.
An average catechized Catholic will have no problem in a debate with the best of Mormon apologists. The simple fact is that it’s a completely different gospel than “traditional Christianity.”
Just a few examples are:

The different gospel topic is easily debunked by Gal 1:6
They have an apostasy theory that is easily debunked by Mt 16:18, Mt 12:29, & LK 14:27-30

Utah is a wonderful place, great people, beautiful country… and for Catholics who wish to move there they should be prepared for “friendly” conversations in regards to religion, and always be ready to witness for Christ.
 
You bring up valid concerns. I do apologize for a brief summary of life in Utah. I’ve experienced awkward situations growing up and living in Utah in regards to me being Catholic. However, for the most part it’s a great place to live, and “most” people are respectful.
One has to understand that the Mormon Church is a very “mission oriented” institution. The state is primarily Mormon, and it should be expected that anyone living in Utah will be visited by Mormon missionaries from time to time. They are very kind, polite, and very respectful towards others.
With that said, one should be prepared to understand the basic differences between Catholicism and Mormonism. Mormonism rejects some of the most fundamental doctrines of Christianity and, it does make a direct claim against the Catholic Church.
An average catechized Catholic will have no problem in a debate with the best of Mormon apologists. The simple fact is that it’s a completely different gospel than “traditional Christianity.”
Just a few examples are:

The different gospel topic is easily debunked by Gal 1:6
They have an apostasy theory that is easily debunked by Mt 16:18, Mt 12:29, & LK 14:27-30

Utah is a wonderful place, great people, beautiful country… and for Catholics who wish to move there they should be prepared for “friendly” conversations in regards to religion, and always be ready to witness for Christ.
I am a former Mormon and have plenty of family who live in Utah, including a brother and sister. I know.

I get that there are a lot of people who like Utah whether Mormon or not. I don’t. You could not pay me enough to live there willingly and I felt that way long before I ever left Mormonism. Yes Catholics have to be educated and on their toes and be prepared to defend their faith and protect their children. I do think the environment has gotten better, especially in Salt Lake Valley.
 
I am a former Mormon and have plenty of family who live in Utah, including a brother and sister. I know.

I get that there are a lot of people who like Utah whether Mormon or not. I don’t. You could not pay me enough to live there willingly and I felt that way long before I ever left Mormonism. Yes Catholics have to be educated and on their toes and be prepared to defend their faith and protect their children. I do think the environment has gotten better, especially in Salt Lake Valley.
I lived in Utah while attending college and one of the first things I did after graduation was to move to another state. If I was inclined to move again, Utah would be the last place I would pick. I was fortunate in that while going to school there my kids were still very young and not subjected to the their conversion techniques.
 
I lived in Utah while attending college and one of the first things I did after graduation was to move to another state. If I was inclined to move again, Utah would be the last place I would pick. I was fortunate in that while going to school there my kids were still very young and not subjected to the their conversion techniques.
That had to be bad that now the new gnostic northwest has less harmful
Conversion techniques to secular humanism and environmentalism than Utah did with Mormonism.
Growing up in southern Idaho there were some areas more Mormon than Utah. Sometimes, it was harmful but most of the time Mormons seem to make the community better.
I’d rather live in Utah than Washington or Oregon. But that’s personal preference.

I will say that yes, with children you need to be careful about conversion tactics but sadly, I’d send my kids to byu before I’d send them to SU, UP, or Gonzaga. And those are “Catholic” schools.

Interesting fact. Byu has the highest Muslim attendance. The traditional values attracts them.
 
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