Any suggestions of how to bring it up to her in a non-obtrusive way? (she’s a cradle catholic, but not so into it now)
First, ask the Holy Spirit to help you form the right words;also ask both your Guardian angels to help, then propose that you want to grow in your relationship with Jesus and as a married couple it would help you grow closer to pray together. I would suggest that you start with either 1 decade a day and 1 complete Rosary on 1 day with particular concentration on the Sorrowful mysteries. Have a hand out with the directions handy so she can learn the mysteries as well as the Hail Holy Queen and the closing prayer. Use the opportunity to explain that you are wanting to be closer to our Lord and Mary helps us on the way. If she resists at first,back off but make sure she knows you are praying it every day. I learned it because they prayed it at church before every Sunday Mass and i did not understand their devotion to Mary. It took years, but very time I said a Rosary good things happen in my life, my work, my family. Maybe a book of Spiritual Reading for Lent will help. It helps to know to concentrate on the Mysteries as you say the Hail Mary’s–place yourself into the seen and try to see what those witness’ saw or felt. Your knowledge of the Lord’s life will grow and deepen.
“Come Holy Spirit, Come by means of the powerful intercession of your well beloved spouse” you might also try to find the Men of the Sacred Heart and request an enthronement-probably too late for this Lent,but worth a try. The men of our parish that do the Enthronements are booked a year in advance. Every family that has participated in one talks of the profound effects in their lives.
God Bless,
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