Prayer and Free Will

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It is my understanding that God does not (cannot?) interfere with a human’s free will.

I have been praying for my family members to end their addiction to alcohol. But what good can this do? Will the petitions I pray for have any effect toward convincing them to seek treatment themselves? They must have their own free will to end their addiction for good.

So is it futile to offer these prayers?
 
This Is My first day visiting this site, and im a broken man atm so my advice may be worth nothing at this point, but i would say no. It is NEVER futile to pray, though your prayers may not be answered. They may, and i hope for your sake they are, but god has his hands full with the rest of humanity. Please dont be offended as this is my first time here, but ive seen my fair share of substance abuse. The problem with Free will my friend is that he chooses his drug/alcohol freely, as many have in the past…including myself. If god cannot, or does not want to interfere with this, then it is up to the individuals to help themselves. In my case someone else stepped in and showed me the path, they may not be so lucky. Then again that person who offers help in this case may be you! Really dont know and im sorry if this doesnt help you, but ill join you in prayer for them. Just be careful. I dont want you to take my advice and end up pushing your family away.
 
What you are really praying for is that your family members use their free will to accept the grace that God is continually offering. If they do this it may lead them to seeking medical help for their addiction. Don’t stop praying for your relatives. Remember that God can see the whole picture of their lives and we can see only the little corner of now. Pray for yourself also that God may help you to bear the pain of your family members’ addiction. Pray to their guardian angels to nudge them in the right direction and ask the Venerable Matt Talbot (an alcoholic at age 12) to intercede for them. 🙂
 
I prayed for my brother who was alcoholic, and he came back to God and the Church after 30 years away, just a month before his sudden accidental death.

Jesus Christ Son of the living God tells us to pray so I think we must accept what He says seriously. He taught the apostled what we call "The Lord’s Prayer.

Jesus teaches** “When you stand in prayer, forgive whatever you have against anybody, so that your Father in heaven may forgive your failings too.”** [Mark 11:25]Jesus urges us to pray humbly, without ostentation,* “Go into your private room and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in that secret place, and your Father who sees all that is done in secret will reward you.” [Matthew 6:6]Jesus also desires community prayer, in addition to private prayer, for He says,* “if two of you on earth agree to ask anything at all, it will be granted by my Father in heaven. For where two or three meet in my name, I shall be there with them.”** [Matthew 18:19-20]

Yet when one has prayed faithfully and zealously, with no apparent result—perhaps only deterioration—in the life of one’s self and loved ones’, then discouragement may follow. However, Scripture reminds us that,** “The Lord is close to the broken-hearted; those whose spirit is crushed He will save. Many are the trials of the just person but from them all, the Lord will rescue him.”** [Psalm 33:2, 6]

“There is no need to worry; but if there is anything you need, pray for it, asking God for it with prayer and thanksgiving, and that peace of God, which is so much greater than we can understand, will guard your hearts and your thoughts, in Christ Jesus.” [Philippians 4:6-7]

We must trust in God’s time *** “Everything will soon come to an end, so, to pray better, keep a calm and sober mind.”* [1Peter 4:7]** As God won’t force other’s will, it may take years of faithful prayers: “To You, a thousand years are a single day, a yesterday now over, an hour of the night.” [Psalm 90:4]
 
Thanks for clearing up my confusion. I’ll continue to pray.
 
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