Prayer for girlfriend.

[GilMartin]

Hi guys!

I would like to ask for you to please pray for me and my younger girlfriend. I saw some flirty and explicit messages on my phone to someone she just met. I myself am not the perfect guy, and I still do believe that this is a test for my love towards her. I know that in our hearts we love each other, it’s just that we may have not spoken much or were just too shy. She’s actually recovering from an operation right now. I never meant too see those messages, but I think God has better plans. You see I plan for us to get married one day when the time comes. Please pray for both of us to be understanding; forgiving towards each other; God-fearing; and help us to control our desires and to learn to discuss issues in a clear and transparent manner where privacy counts.

I also pray for all those in similar situations too realize that True Love is something we can wait for. I pray that God through his infinite understanding will guide us towards success in marriage.

God bless you all.

 

[19lac67]

Our Father who art in Heaven
hallowed be thy name
Thy kingdom come Thy will be done
on earth as it is in heaven
give us this day our daily bread
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those that trespass
against us
and lead us not into temptation
and deliver us from evil
Amen

 

[MaryT777]

Prayers for all your intentions and God bless you as well!

 

[GilMartin]

Hi guys!

I would like to ask for you to please pray for me and my younger girlfriend. I saw some flirty and explicit messages on my phone to someone she just met. I myself am not the perfect guy, and I still do believe that this is a test for my love towards her. I know that in our hearts we love each other, it’s just that we may have not spoken much or were just too shy. She’s actually recovering from an operation right now. I never meant too see those messages, but I think God has better plans. You see I plan for us to get married one day when the time comes. Please pray for both of us to be understanding; forgiving towards each other; God-fearing; and help us to control our desires and to learn to discuss issues in a clear and transparent manner where privacy counts.

I also pray for all those in similar situations too realize that True Love is something we can wait for. I pray that God through his infinite understanding will guide us towards success in marriage.

God bless you all.

 

[GilMartin]

Thanks guys for your prayers. I really appreciate it. Somewhere in the Bible it says something like, “Where there are two or more praying for me, I am in their midst.” The simplest prayer, the “Our Father”, is something many people tend to just mumble. Yet those simple words are what we need to meditate upon. God knows our desires and intentions beforehand. It is the forgiveness part that is our Christian life. She may have done that because she thought I have totally lost my love for her or she may have misinterpreted some actions. In fact it is the opposite, my love for her has even grown stronger than before. God really works in mysterious ways, what may seem as a “tragedy” firsthand is actually a blessing in disguise.

 

[Vim71]

Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.

Glory Be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning is now ever shall be world without end
Amen.

Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy, hear and answer me. Amen

 

[runningdude]

Hi guys!

I would like to ask for you to please pray for me and my younger girlfriend. I saw some flirty and explicit messages on my phone to someone she just met. I myself am not the perfect guy, and I still do believe that this is a test for my love towards her. I know that in our hearts we love each other, it’s just that we may have not spoken much or were just too shy. She’s actually recovering from an operation right now. I never meant too see those messages, but I think God has better plans. You see I plan for us to get married one day when the time comes. Please pray for both of us to be understanding; forgiving towards each other; God-fearing; and help us to control our desires and to learn to discuss issues in a clear and transparent manner where privacy counts.

I also pray for all those in similar situations too realize that True Love is something we can wait for. I pray that God through his infinite understanding will guide us towards success in marriage.

God bless you all.

I will just say this bluntly; God does not want you to marry a cheater.

Until you exchange marriage vows, there is no obligation to remain together. If your girlfriend feels the need to “flirt”, then perhaps she is not happy. If you love her, then her happiness should be paramount, and you should feel free to break things off.

I went through a very painful breakup a few years ago during my last year of college. Through a lot of pain and anger, and several intimate conversations with my ex-girlfriend as to why it didn’t work out, I actually grew as a person.

Be prepared to let go. Having plans of marriage puts a lot pressure on your girlfriend, especially while the two of you have difficulty communicating. You’ll have to learn to talk and listen with her, even if it only while breaking up with her. Learning these skills will help you better relate to whomever you eventually marry. It’s OK to pray that you marry her, but accept that God may have someone better you you.

Also, you need to discuss this with her personally, and not on an online message board where everybody but her can see. As you said, “privacy counts”.